Hello
We have a 5 year old cat, Woody (female), and two 11 week old kittens who are currently living in our bedroom.
I want to know if anyone has any advice on introducing them to each other. They have met across the hall a few times and Woody just spits at them and runs away. The problem is if she keeps running away from them she's never going to get used to them because she's avoiding having to deal with the social interaction.
I don't know whether to lock her in a room with them (and me of course!) and make her just get over herself or to just gradually let them further and further into the house as they grow. I'm worried locking her in is cruel and will cause her to feel cornered and unhappy, but then she will be unhappy anyway for a while if they are let into the main house and perhaps forcing her to face them will get it over with quicker - if you see what I mean. I'm also concerned that being cornered will make her lash out at them, although I don't think she would be capable of doing them any harm I couldn't guarantee it.
Any advice is very much appreciated.