Topic: Elsa has gone (Read 19588 times)

Ellie · « **Reply #39 on:** October 14, 2007, 20:27:09 PM »

Oh Gillian I am so sorry

Thank you for sharing Elsa's beautiful photo with us xx

My thoughts and prayers are with you and Elsa xx

littleKitten_(alex) · « **Reply #38 on:** October 14, 2007, 20:21:12 PM »

Oh Gillian, I am so sorry for you. But you know what's best.

No matter how long we have our furry babies, it is never long enough. But at least Elsa had a long, happy life with you - and now she's letting you know that she's getting tired.

How wonderful to get such a special last photo of her. When it was time for my parents' dog to go last year, I flew home to Sweden to spend the last couple of days with her, and I got some amazing pictures and video clips that I will treasure forever.

Just know we're all thinking of you.

sheryl · « **Reply #37 on:** October 14, 2007, 20:02:34 PM »

Thinking of you Gillian and crying my eyes out because what you have said reminds me so much of when we had to let our little persian Bina go to the bridge, I knew it was time, I could see it in her eyes but it was so hard to say goodbye.

Hugs to you and a big cuddle for Elsa xxx

ChrisB · « **Reply #36 on:** October 14, 2007, 19:41:06 PM »

Elsa is beautiful - thinking of you both - it won't help much right now but please know that so many of us are here for you.

Purrlishious · « **Reply #35 on:** October 14, 2007, 19:36:35 PM »

My heart is breaking for you Gillian & tears flowing. How very, very sad.
Special thoughts are with you & gorgeous Elsa.

Susanne (urbantigers) · « **Reply #34 on:** October 14, 2007, 19:24:18 PM »

She is such a beautiful girl

Corporal Smokey · « **Reply #33 on:** October 14, 2007, 19:15:44 PM »

The day Hope left us she was so weak. Throughout her CRF ordeal she didn't respond to drugs or fight it. She wanted to be as happy as possible for her last few months. I always think that I didn't do enough for her. I didn't forcefeed her and gave her normal food even though I new it was bad. She wouldn't touch the vet food and I tried everything. She started to stagger in her last few weeks. I called the vets and took her in several times but they couldn't do any more than they had done. I cried almost every night.

That last day, I had "that" feeling so I came home from work early and just held her. We fell asleep together for and hour or so. During that time (sorry, I'm in floods as I type) I made my peace with her and said goodbye. I decided to to make her comfortable (she was happy but so very weak) and take her to the vet in the morning. The last thing I said to Ian that night when I finally got to bed was "why is it me who has to play God?" I knew it was right but I was so torn.

She didn't make it to the vet, she went to the Bridge in the night. I don't think you're ever convinced it's 100% right but I know Hope wanted to go and she's happier where she is now.

I hope my rambling gives you some comfort and Elsa is happy. Tell her to pass a headbutt to Hope for me

hannah (weeny) · « **Reply #32 on:** October 14, 2007, 19:09:09 PM »

oh i'm so sorry, its so hard....
enjoy some special time together xx

JackSpratt · « **Reply #31 on:** October 14, 2007, 19:03:21 PM »

Elsa is a truly stunning cat. And when the time comes to make a decision it will be difficult - 20 years is a long time to have a friend as wonderful as her. She knows she's loved, Gillian and that really does matter.

Kittybabe (Ruth) · « **Reply #30 on:** October 14, 2007, 19:00:34 PM »

I am thinking of you both, Gillian. You know when you need to let her go, be brave honey for both of you.

hOrZa · « **Reply #29 on:** October 14, 2007, 18:59:17 PM »

I don't envy you this decision at all

but I know you'll make the right one

Sarah (seldom_use) · « **Reply #28 on:** October 14, 2007, 18:57:48 PM »

Gill you're in my thoughts through this hard time.

Elsa is gorgeous and what a wonderful life she's had with you. I know you'll make the right decision by her as you always have done

You know she'll always be watching over you and the other babes

xxxx

ginge66 · « **Reply #27 on:** October 14, 2007, 18:55:34 PM »

She looks a lovely cat, know exactly what your going through as this happened with Nigel. Its so heart breaking and not an easy decision to make.

Thinking of you both

Gill (sneakiefeline) · « **Reply #26 on:** October 14, 2007, 18:34:30 PM »

Elsa is so lovely and this is such a hard time for you cos she is so special. Thinking of you both

Gwen · « **Reply #25 on:** October 14, 2007, 18:31:30 PM »

Shes one brave little girl,so beautiful and she knows how lucky shes been having a meowmy like you

Desley (booktigger) · « **Reply #24 on:** October 14, 2007, 18:31:13 PM »

What a lovely picture.

puddypaws · « **Reply #23 on:** October 14, 2007, 18:30:38 PM »

Aww Gillian we're all thinking of you.

Gillian Harvey · « **Reply #22 on:** October 14, 2007, 18:28:44 PM »

everyone. I was feeling very brave earlier, but now I don't feel at all brave. I've just had mum over - mum's always seen Elsa as her special favourite, and I wanted her to see her one more time. I tried to explain that she can't go on indefinitely not eating or drinking, but I don't think its sunk in. I was holding it all together while mum was here, but after a I took her home, that was it.

I wanted a last pic of her and, although she looks so frail and clearly to tired to get up and greet me, (she always had a funny reaction when I was taking photos, sort of like when they are chattering at the birds!), she still stretched out that paw and did that lovely scrunching up of the toes, you know - the way they do when they are sleepy and just want to let you know they are responding.

Susanne (urbantigers) · « **Reply #21 on:** October 14, 2007, 18:19:31 PM »

Sorry to hear this, Gillian

It sounds like she's trying to tell you it's time. I know you'll put Elsa first whatever happens.

Tiggy's Mum · « **Reply #20 on:** October 14, 2007, 18:10:26 PM »

So sorry Gillian

It really is such a heart breaking decision to have to make

The Greatest Gift

I always knew this time would come,
From the very instant our eyes first met.
How I loved you then! How I love you now!
I made a promise then, and I will keep that promise now...
You will not suffer from a pain that will not heal;
You will not know the loss of a life remembered, now gone.

It is for me alone to make this decision,
The price for the bright joy and pure laughter
You brought me during the time we shared.
I am the only one who can decide when it is time.
When my hope dies, and my fear rides high,
Just when I need you most, I must let you go.

It is for you alone to tell me when you are ready
For without your guidance, I will not know
When to lay my grief, my guilt, my anger
My sorrow and my selfish heart aside
And give you this last gift, this greatest gift.
Your eyes will speak to mine, and I will know.

The pain of this moment is excruciating.
Tears stream down my face in a river of sorrow.
And my heart drowns in a pool of grief.
For you have spoken and I have listened,
And unlike other decisions I have made
This one brings no relief...no comfort...no peace.

For if there´s one thing you´ve taught me,
If there´s only one thing I´ve learned...
Unconditional love has a condition after all,
I must be willing to let you go, when you speak to me
I must be willing to help you go, if you cannot go alone.
And I must accept my pain so you can be free of yours.

Go easily now, go quickly now,
Do not linger here, it is time for you to leave.
Go find your strength, go find your youth.
Go find the ones who've gone before you.
You are free to leave me now, free to let your spirit soar
Rest easy now, your pain will soon be gone.

I pray I will find comfort in my memories...
In the dark and lonely days ahead.
I cannot say I will not miss you, I cannot say I will not cry.
For only my tears can heal my broken heart.
But, I promise you this; as long as I live,
You will live, alive in my mind, forever in my heart.

So I give you this last gift, all I have left to give,
And this will be my greatest gift...sending you away.
It is the measure of my unconditional love...
For only the greatest love can say,
"Good-bye, go find the bridge, we'll meet again,
Loving you has been the greatest gift of all."
Forever and Always... Until Rainbow bridge....

Gwen · « **Reply #19 on:** October 14, 2007, 18:10:12 PM »

oh gee I am crying now and I am no help to you I know in saying that.

Elsa has had such a wonderful life with you,I mean 20 years is an awsome age and I know you will do whats right for her I have no doubt about that when/if the time comes.

We're all thinking of you and Elsa

Liz · « **Reply #18 on:** October 14, 2007, 17:58:08 PM »

I think Elsa is ready to go and after 20 years it is like loosing your best friend and you have to make that decision which will be so hard for you but relief for her

Thinking of you at this time and Elsa,

Hugs and Purrs the Clan cats and Parents

She's like my older ladies they have been my best friend through so many things and She will always be with you just not within touching distance but waiting at the bridge for you

Bazsmum · « **Reply #17 on:** October 14, 2007, 17:57:24 PM »

Gillian you know her best....my thoughts are now with Elsa and yourself

Desley (booktigger) · « **Reply #16 on:** October 14, 2007, 17:23:29 PM »

I am so very sorry to hear this Gillian, I know you will do the right thing by her. Thinking of you.

furballmom · « **Reply #15 on:** October 14, 2007, 16:32:02 PM »

so sorry to hear about elsa give her a

i'm sure you know whats best for her i hope she goes peacefully

Mark · « **Reply #14 on:** October 14, 2007, 16:24:57 PM »

Hi Gillian,

You know Elsa better than anyone and wouldn't want her to suffer. I'm sure whatever you do will be for the best. Its so sad - one of the hardest parts of loving a cat. Its also doubly sad being so soon afer Suzie

Catjane · « **Reply #13 on:** October 14, 2007, 16:05:54 PM »

I feel for you

Elsa's done very well to reach the grand old age of 20, and now it seems she is waiting for you to send her to the Bridge where she'll feel so much better. She must have had a wonderful life with you

Hugs to you, and a gentle stroke for Elsa.

Sam (Fussy_Furball) · « **Reply #12 on:** October 14, 2007, 15:39:29 PM »

Ahh bless her give her lots of cuddles and love and let her know if she thinks it's her time to go then you understand and will be with her. I hope Elsa passes quietly in her sleep but if she is distressed in anyway I'm sure you will do the right thing for her.

Gillian and a big

for Elsa.xxx

Gill (sneakiefeline) · « **Reply #11 on:** October 14, 2007, 15:39:16 PM »

Very sad but you know Elsa best, give her a gentle stroke from me

lilycat · « **Reply #10 on:** October 14, 2007, 15:34:55 PM »

Sending

to you Gillian and a gentle chin scratch to Elsa

Bobjay · « **Reply #9 on:** October 14, 2007, 15:30:47 PM »

I know it's heartbreaking but, as others have said, both you and she know the time has come to let go.

COSMIC CREEPERS · « **Reply #8 on:** October 14, 2007, 15:15:50 PM »

gillian ,.............. shes tird ......

xxxxx

lucy · « **Reply #7 on:** October 14, 2007, 15:05:02 PM »

Sorry to hear this, but as you say you feel she is telling you.

JackSpratt · « **Reply #6 on:** October 14, 2007, 14:54:57 PM »

Gillian, you most definately do know Elsa better than anyone. If she's letting you know, you'll do what's best for her....even if it hurts you.

Millys Mum · « **Reply #5 on:** October 14, 2007, 14:41:34 PM »

Sorry to hear about Elsa Gillian

Stuart · « **Reply #4 on:** October 14, 2007, 14:39:37 PM »

Oh Gillian, I'm So Sorry to read this

20 yrs is a VERY respectable age to reach, But as I found out, They DO seem to let you Know
and "you know Elsa Better than Anyone!!"
It's not easy but it has to be done

Will be thinking about you and were all here if you need us

Michelle (furbabystar) · « **Reply #3 on:** October 14, 2007, 14:28:06 PM »

Oh Gillian i am so sorry -
I sadly also agree that Elsa is telling you its time

Much love and hugs xxxxxxxxxxxxxx

blackcat · « **Reply #2 on:** October 14, 2007, 14:05:59 PM »

Gillian, I think you are right

they know when it is time.

Gillian Harvey · « **Reply #1 on:** October 14, 2007, 14:00:04 PM »

Elsa recovered well from the respiratory infection and has been eating well for the past week. However, yesterday she didnt eat any breakfast and she seemed a bit 'spaced' out. She slept most of the day, and again in the evening, she didnt want to eat. During the evening she seemed unable to settle, she even wandered out of the patio doors and sat on the patio (most unusual, she normally likes to be indoors these days) She seemed to want to drink, but every time she went to the water bowl she just hung her head over it, but didnt drink - thats a very bad sign I think. She's not eaten this morning and I tried to give her some water by syringe, but she really didnt want it - I think she's telling me enough's enough.

She doesnt seem in any distress as such, just very frail and tired.

She's 20 yrs old, and I've had her since she was 6 wks old, think she's made the decision for me.

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