Don't pay for her as then he just go out and buy another and we will be in this state again
Although I sort of agree, the bottom line is this cat.
Is it possible you could advise him (or perhaps you already have):- Benefits of Spaying (females):
No heat cycles, therefore males will not be attracted.
Less desire to roam
Risk of mammary gland tumors, ovarian and/or uterine cancer is reduced or eliminated. Even one season increases the chance of cancer later in life. So indoors cats need spaying also. Cats & dogs will not acquire pyometra a life threatening infection & it reduces the risk of feline aids and leukaemia which s rife in our area.
Reduces the number of unwanted cats/kittens and dogs/puppies
Helps dogs and cats live 3 – 5 YEARS LONGER, healthier lives.
If you want to go down the line of paying for the cat I would buy it although it is something I do not like to encourage, (depending on price of course). I am sure I could re-home it.