Hi Millys Mum,
Tatty is doing fine, and is getting along with most of our furry gang OK, apart from with Tommy. It has taken quite a few months, but Tatty appears to respect the girls (Suki and Gizzy), and Gizzy and he both sleep in the living room at the same time, usually in the mornings, although not together. Tatty also gets along OK with Sweepy, and they frequently exchange furry head-butts when they meet.
Unfortunately, Tatty doesn't get along so well with Tommy, and I think that that was our fault. Tatty is very people-orientated kitty, and we were all out in the back garden about 2 - 3 months ago. Tommy came strolling out into the back garden to be with us, and my OH Jim immediately started to pay Tommy all the attention. Tatty just flew at Tommy, and chased him all around the garden, really trying to pin him down and fight with him. We managed to separate them, and currently Tatty is fine with Tommy as long as he is the one getting all the strokes and attention, but every time that Tommy now sees Tatty, he doesn't want to be in the same vicinity as him.
However, since that time, things do seem to have settled down a little.
Everything is OK in the house during the day, because I am at there, and everyone is free to wander anywhere they like, and they have the space to avoid each other if they want to.
At the moment, we feel that Tatty still has to sleep in the dining room at night, when we can't be there to keep an eye on everyone, to ensure Tommy's safety.
We aren't even going to start introducing Tabs to the rest of the family until he has finished has first set of vaccinations, which will be in 2 weeks time.