Hi Lillie, welcome to the site. You will find there are a lot of people here who can give you advice and help with your expectant mum. I will leave it to the more qualified (and more recently experienced) than me. You will also find lots of new friends, ideas and fun on the site. So welcome and don't be a stranger. PS I understand it is official policy to warn newbies that this site is addictive. They are right. I have been a member for 8 days and have already logged 28 hours on the site - ah mee.
PS Lillie is GORGEOUS!!! lucky you!!