Topic: I've lost my Frodo. (Read 10855 times)

an4rew · « **Reply #46 on:** December 15, 2015, 07:34:36 AM »

Quote from: Mark on November 12, 2015, 23:13:09 PM

I is hard losing them and it takes ages to get used to it. We never get over it completely. We lost Laz in March and Alice in December 2013 - I can't believe it is nearly 2 years. I can remember going to the chippy on her last day to buy her a piece of her favourite cod to hand feed her at the vets next door. Also Willow and Clapton a few years previously. Still hard to look at photos and videos sometimes.

As others have said, most of us have been through it, so completely understand

Mark i did the same thing with Elvis, the only thing he would eat towards the end was some proper fish from the chip shop.
I haven't gotten anymore since

Mark · « **Reply #45 on:** November 12, 2015, 23:13:09 PM »

I is hard losing them and it takes ages to get used to it. We never get over it completely. We lost Laz in March and Alice in December 2013 - I can't believe it is nearly 2 years. I can remember going to the chippy on her last day to buy her a piece of her favourite cod to hand feed her at the vets next door. Also Willow and Clapton a few years previously. Still hard to look at photos and videos sometimes.

As others have said, most of us have been through it, so completely understand

hollycat · « **Reply #44 on:** November 12, 2015, 21:59:32 PM »

Lyn (Slugsta) · « **Reply #43 on:** November 12, 2015, 21:42:52 PM »

It's 5 years since I lost my beloved Chivers. I'm just starting to be able to remember him with a smile - sometimes. It's a long process but that just bears testament to how much love the spirit is capable of

maryas · « **Reply #42 on:** November 12, 2015, 18:41:25 PM »

Quote from: bickhamwitch on November 12, 2015, 01:10:49 AM

I'm so glad I did Lyn. I couldn't read any of Frodo's posts. Or look at his photos. But I can now. With heartache. But it's a start.
Julie.

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Bonnie's on my screensaver on my phone and my computer, I thought about changing them but I haven't :Luv2:I use my phone as my alarm cos my clock was too loud for Bonnie. WhenI look at the pics on my phone sometimes I cry and go to sleep but other times I smile and go to sleep. Also I still wake up in the night and turn to give Bonnie a kiss and it's just an empty pillow next to mine

We just have to keep thinking what a wonderful time they had with us and us with them and keep smiling

Mary

Purdy Bear · « **Reply #41 on:** November 12, 2015, 18:25:50 PM »

Gill (sneakiefeline) · « **Reply #40 on:** November 12, 2015, 13:28:08 PM »

Definately a start and just take things slow

bickhamwitch · « **Reply #39 on:** November 12, 2015, 01:10:49 AM »

I'm so glad I did Lyn. I couldn't read any of Frodo's posts. Or look at his photos. But I can now. With heartache. But it's a start.
Julie.

Lyn (Slugsta) · « **Reply #38 on:** November 11, 2015, 22:28:18 PM »

I am glad that you feel able to come back among your friends Julie

alisonandarchie · « **Reply #37 on:** November 10, 2015, 19:37:48 PM »

maryas · « **Reply #36 on:** November 10, 2015, 18:26:55 PM »

Good to see you back with us Julie after a sad time in your life

Mary

Gill (sneakiefeline) · « **Reply #35 on:** November 10, 2015, 09:14:17 AM »

We all understand and have been there sadly.

In time the good memorys take over mostly but it can take a long time and I now think of all the crazy wonderful things that Kocka used to do and how Napoleon and Misa used to rush for the same place by my head on the bed, with Ducha just slipping round the otherside to lie on my head.

Sue P (Paddysmum) · « **Reply #34 on:** November 10, 2015, 07:10:26 AM »

bickhamwitch · « **Reply #33 on:** November 10, 2015, 00:03:25 AM »

I haven't been able to read these messages until today. They made me cry of course. But gave me such comfort that so many people cared. What lovely friends you all are.
Julie.

Dawn F · « **Reply #32 on:** October 09, 2015, 08:43:35 AM »

hope you are ok Julie

hollycat · « **Reply #31 on:** October 08, 2015, 19:40:09 PM »

My thoughts are with you Julie

Tigerlily (Allison) · « **Reply #30 on:** October 08, 2015, 19:16:42 PM »

Julie,

maryas · « **Reply #29 on:** October 08, 2015, 12:50:55 PM »

Hope you are up to reading these lovely messages and your PMs very soon Julie.

We all know how hard it is and we all come through it in our own way

Mary and Kitty xx

souffle · « **Reply #28 on:** October 07, 2015, 12:44:35 PM »

I am so very sorry for your loss. You gave him the last great gift and let him fly free gently. He is at peace now and away from his pain. He has joined the great circle of life again but Frodo's soul stays in your heart forever.
Play well at the bridge Frodo where time has no meaning. Your friends will join your when they are ready xx

sheilarose · « **Reply #27 on:** October 07, 2015, 00:14:32 AM »

So sad to read this. Heartfelt sorrow for you Julie. x

Gill (sneakiefeline) · « **Reply #26 on:** October 06, 2015, 00:45:51 AM »

to all of you

JenGeorgieBob · « **Reply #25 on:** October 05, 2015, 21:05:11 PM »

thinking of you all

Susanne (urbantigers) · « **Reply #24 on:** October 05, 2015, 18:52:45 PM »

Hope you are ok, Julie

Sootyca · « **Reply #23 on:** October 05, 2015, 18:38:21 PM »

Lyn (Slugsta) · « **Reply #22 on:** October 05, 2015, 17:21:23 PM »

You are still in my thoughts, and my heart, Julie

Tigerlily (Allison) · « **Reply #21 on:** October 05, 2015, 15:54:22 PM »

So sorry for your loss Julie

RIP Frodo

maryas · « **Reply #20 on:** October 05, 2015, 14:53:53 PM »

Lots more

for you and Thierry and the gang

Mary and Kitty xx

emmmy_lou · « **Reply #19 on:** October 05, 2015, 10:55:08 AM »

so sorry, you must be devastated

Sue P (Paddysmum) · « **Reply #18 on:** October 05, 2015, 07:16:46 AM »

Mary's right - words are ruddy useless at times like this, but just wanted to send you a gentle hug.

Thinking of you.

Julz (Winnie's Meowmy) · « **Reply #17 on:** October 04, 2015, 14:44:50 PM »

Hi Julie,

Really sorry to read about you losing Frodo. He sounded such a lovely cat.

Frodo - play hard at the Rainbow Bridge

Mweekie xx

Reets · « **Reply #16 on:** October 03, 2015, 22:09:57 PM »

So sorry to hear this heartbreaking news. Much love to you and your clan, Julie, and for Frodo, peace, no more suffering.

xx

alisonandarchie · « **Reply #15 on:** October 03, 2015, 21:23:42 PM »

Am so sorry Julie, thinking of you at this very sad time.

Run free beautiful boy

hollycat · « **Reply #14 on:** October 03, 2015, 20:54:33 PM »

I saw this earlier Julie but could not reply as I was to upset.
I am so very sorry that you had to let little Frodo go. It is such a hard thing to do. I know how much you loved him as you love all your lovely cats.
Take your time.

Run free little Frodo, play hard

RIP Frodo

Jiji · « **Reply #13 on:** October 03, 2015, 20:31:55 PM »

I am so very sorry to hear about Frodo

My thoughts are with you

maryas · « **Reply #12 on:** October 03, 2015, 17:36:08 PM »

There are so many nice words we can say to you but they are usually bloody useless at a time like this

However, cos most of us have had to do this horrible but kind thing we know what we say will comfort you when you are ready to read our thoughts.

Frodo will soon find Bonnie and lots of other Purrs cats that are now able to be comforted by each other.

Love to you and the cats

Mary and Kitty xx

Lyn (Slugsta) · « **Reply #11 on:** October 03, 2015, 12:36:45 PM »

I am so sorry to hear this Julie. I know that nothing I can say will make you feel any better butI also know that you have a big heart that will heal in time.

RIP Frodo If you see Chivers and Punky at the bridge, please tell them that I still love them!

Gill (sneakiefeline) · « **Reply #10 on:** October 03, 2015, 12:27:45 PM »

Julie am so sad to see this sad news, have lost 3 of my cats to this

I know that nothing will console you right now but we are all here for you when you are ready.

RIP Frodo you were loved so much and will always be a purr in your humans heart.

Rosella moggy · « **Reply #9 on:** October 03, 2015, 12:05:50 PM »

Just seen this Julie and am so very sorry for your loss. CKD is a wicked condition. I feel for you deeply and fully understand your wish to withdraw into yourself.

Am so glad you have other feline company to help console you .........

RIP beautiful Frodo

Dawn F · « **Reply #8 on:** October 03, 2015, 10:21:32 AM »

oh Julie i'm so sorry

jezebel · « **Reply #7 on:** October 03, 2015, 10:14:44 AM »

So sorry to hear this Julie, Frodo will be missed by his wonderful family.
Look after yourself, we'll all still be here when you're ready for some company.

RIP Frodo.

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