Hi everybody! I'm sorry it took me so long to reply. These last months have been incredibly busy.
Rulos is alive and well, now a half-jawed cat as loving and handsome as always. The whole post-surgery and recovery stage was a complete nightmare (most of it due to the lousy post-operative care -we actually brought our Rulos home 2 days after surgery instead of the 5 they told us before- after we went to see him and found him in clear pain, all cold and wet with no staff around taking care of him -my bf opened the recovery crate, grabbed him and put him in his arms and yelled "we're taking our cat home TONIGHT whether you like it or not" leaving no choice to the veterinary staff who had just came to check what was going on and was just staring at us in fear) Then at home, and after receiving all sorts of apologies from our vet surgeon who actually came home to see him and give him the official all clear, he was not prescribed with any pain medication besides traumeel (natural pain killer) -vet argued that NSAIDs were too dangerous to use. After some research and seeing that Rulos was miserable we decided to use ketoprofen in small dosage for just 2 days. His relief was such that he actually started eating by himself, running around the house, cuddling with the rest of the cats... I can't believe I made him suffer for more than 24 hours with no pain medication whatsoever (traumeel=useless) Then we suffered all sorts of issues with the feeding tube, and Rulos clearly despised it... then, 7 days went by and he wouldn't poo so the vet suggested to use some Vaseline... I could talk to you about our ordeal for hours!
Quoting Sue P, "Nothing to do with cats is ever for the faint hearted" SO true.
...but the only thing that matters is that Rulos is more than fine. He eats like a champ and has gone back to his usual cuddly playful self. Drooling is not like a big issue but he does drool specially when sleeping with half of his tongue out (I clean him and that's it, no biggie). I have managed to switch all 4 of my cats to raw now, so they are eating healthy, home made food.
The vet is treating Rulos with metronomic chemotherapy (gleevec, drug name imatinib) in which we have spent a little fortune. I wish I could talk to someone else about it -our vet is actually really good, not just a random vet but the best cat oncologist in the country (which is probably not a lot to say being this such a small country) but I have read virtually everything I can in three languages on the Internet about gleevec and metronomic chemo for cats and basically what they say is that initial reports are promising but long term effects are unknown since the therapy is so new...
Well thank you all for all your positive thoughts and good vibes, I really appreciate it. I was so sad and scared and your words helped a lot.
I'll post some pics soon
Lenka