Sorry in advance for length!!
Hi everyone – I’m a new cat “owner” as I have just adopted a stray that turned up at my home. I have an odd situation that I need advice with.
BACKGROUND:
I live in Tottenham (London), my garden backs onto about 30 gardens formed by a square of houses and there are many cats in the area. Until recently, I used to shoo cats out of the garden as I have a bird feeder, so I know the local cats.
About three weeks ago, a small black cat who I have not seen before turned up at my back door – very thin, with a large open wound on her back – about the size of a large strawberry. I don’t feed cats normally but this one was different so I gave her some cat food (yes, had a random tin in my cupboard from when I cat-sat for a friend). She was very nervous, ate and then ran off.
She came back the next night, wound still open. I decided that if she did have a home, they didn’t deserve her as they should have taken her to a vet immediately. I fed her again and kept her in for the night – there were no protests from her – she seemed so grateful and friendly, and slept on my bed.
In the morning, I took her to a local vet who did surgery on her back (£200!!) and got her all cleaned up and well. She wasn’t chipped and the vet told me she was about 2 years old and had already had a litter. I brought her home and kept her indoors while her stitches started to heal and gave her her antibiotics. She’s healed really well and put on weight. The vet and I thought she might be a proper stray.
I’ve checked all the lost cat websites – nothing. She seems to have moved in immediately, and with the lovely weather, we’ve had all the doors and windows open but she’s been very happy here and hasn’t run off/gone back home. She comes when we call her (my son and I named her Selina Kyle!), she follows us around the house and sleeps near me while I’m decorating, she’s so cute and loving. She didn’t purr when she first arrived, now she purrs and drools when you stroke her. So it looks like she’s joined our family very happily.
So that’s the background.
MY QUESTION:
There are four neighbour cats (who I’ve seen around):
Mr Ginger
Mr Black
Mr Black and White
Mr White and tabby
(I think they are all male because of their size but I don’t know)
Since I have been looking after Selina, they come calling for her. She’s much smaller than the other cats who are healthy and presumably have a home. I don’t think Selina is in heat as she’s doing none of the behavioural bum waving, calling etc. The other cats don’t try and mount her or anything, they just seem to want to be near her.
What happens is that I keep finding other cats in the house (not eating her food, just looking for her, calling for her), they climb in my window at night, wander in the house during the day. When they come in the house, Selina fights them and they run off.
However, when I am not visable to them, they all just seem to hang out together – I just found three of them and Selina just sitting together on my decking (but not touching). Then suddenly, Selina will get (presumably) territorial and fight them and then chase them off. The other cats intermittently fight each other too. They also hang out in my neighbours garden together.
The weird thing is that they seem to stalk her – I came down one morning with her and found a cat sleeping at my back door. They climb on the flat roof outside my bedroom and call for her. I have no idea why they want to be near her at all times – I even had Mr Ginger sitting out in the rain for her yesterday. (I just found another cat in the house!!!)
From what I can work out, possible options for this behaviour are:
-Selina is the leader of a gang of cats
-Selina is the leader of a cult
-Selina is in heat (vet didn’t think she was)
-the other cats haven't been spayed
-Selina was a real stray and the other cats looked after her and now feel a bond or protective of her
-She fights them to establish her territory in her new home
-The other cats are strays as well (this is unlikely as they look very well fed and one has a collar)
-She is part of a pack that miss her
-I’m turning into the mad cat lady from the Simpsons.
So what do you make of all that then?
Any idea how to reduce the cat-stalkers in my garden?
Why are the other cats behaving like this? I’ve never seen such attraction! When she's in the house, the cats sleep outside the backdoor....!!
Thanks for all your help – thoughts appreciated!!
(meanwhile, I’ve got her booked in to get her spayed and micro chipped in a week – had to wait for her injury to heal).