Gill, thank you for your advice. This was not a private sale, but the result of a block viewing arranged by my estate agent. Block viewings are common in this area because 99% of the buyers are developers. I have liaised closely with the agent and it was they who asked if I minded my buyer and her architect taking measurements in order to draw up plans to submit to the council. Getting planning permission can take a long time and my buyer has waited with bated breath for me to find a property. I agreed to allow her to come round with her architect because it didn't seem such a big deal to me.
As far as the solicitor goes.....My agent recommended CountryWide. I googled them; they seem to have such a bad reputation and be so expensive that I changed to a local solicitor whose offices are just round the corner. Imagine my disappointment when he emailed the forms I have to complete for the sale! I wanted to see him face to face. When I bought this house, I saw a solicitor - who is no longer in practice - chatted, and he did most of the work; I just had to sign various forms. That was 30 years ago.
I phoned my new solicitor on friday, after receiving confirmation that my offer had been accepted on the house. I asked if I could pop in to see them for help in filling out the forms because I didn't know whether to answer yes or no to many of them. The girl on the phone told me to fill out as much as I could. I asked if that meant she wanted me to print them out. "Did we email them to you?" she asked; when I confirmed this she told me to drop in on monday (tomorrow). So that's as much contact as I've had with solicitors. My only experience of house purchase has been in buying my first home, this one, for which I seem to remember paying a deposit.
The vendors of my new property are unlikely to let me down provided they can find somewhere. They are expanding their family so need a bigger house, but are looking for one close to that which they're selling. I kept in touch with their agents after viewing the house. It wasn't perfect, but had a wonderful atmosphere, so I asked the agent to let me know if there was any movement. Meanwhile I looked at other properties and hated all of them. Then I had a call from the vendors' agent saying there had been an offer - which was way below the asking. I rang my agents, who had offered to haggle for me, put in a slightly increased offer, which was accepted. I realise that my vendors' agent may have been pulling a fast one, but it helped me to make up my mind.
As for the cats, I'll have a chat with the vet. Lucy and her boys are nervous about being handled, though relaxed around the house. Fred loves fuss, but hates being picked up, and Victoria is the same. I think light sedation would help on such a frantic day and with lots of strange movers tromping about. I'll chat to the vets first as they've had first hand experience of my cats. They had to put them in crush cages to microchip them! When one needs to be examined by a vet, a nurse pins him (the cat, not the vet!) onto the table and the vet is still nervous.
Thanks for the help.