Glad Lu is ok after his cape scare.
Me lads also love bags esp Marl and is always getting into them
i have to make sure every bag they can get to have no handles
cheeky monkeys.
Cats are so different to us in fearful times. Luv em lol
The only thing we want to do a comfort them as we would a child but to a cat it's completely different and if we try to comfort them, all it does is reinforce the fear and says to them that yes you should be scared! Best thing to do is act calm once all is safe and act normal as if what just happened aint nowt.
I tried this when going to the vets and it really works. i used to sit at the back with them and talk to them all the time and feel tight inside cause i knew they were scared but since i learnt that actually reinforces their fear i now sit up front and act as if they were not there and completely calm from inside as well (They seem to sense what you feel inside) and they are definitely not as scared
They are amazing aint they