Hi,
Some of you have probably noticed that one of my cats, Dave, frequently goes missing. She was gone for 5 days up until this afternoon, when she finally came hope of her own accord.
There are a combination of problems at play. A neighbour has been feeding her and had her last time. I've sorted that problem out and had a full and frank discussion with them. They now understand that it upsets me a lot, she's loved at home and she often comes back from theirs with a poorly tummy which I've had to spend a couple of hundred pounds trying to treat at the vet.
The other problem I have with her is that she was semi-feral when I took her in. She'd been abandoned with her brother and lived outside for ages. She got used to getting food from everyone she could and worked hard at it. Now that behaviour has manifested in her getting enough food here, but wandering for what I can only imagine is miles. Her microchip meant she got picked up about a mile away, but that's the only one I definitely know about.
I live two roads up from a main road. It's always very busy and has people speeding on it. She's been spotted both by me and friends on the other side of it. This time, she's definitely been fighting. She's come back fairly roughed up.
The major issue with her coming home is that she is very aggressive. She's never been aggressive up until recently, but the last 3 times she's returned in an awful mood. She beat her brother up very badly this afternoon and he's a bit shaken up and was aggressive towards my kittens. She then lashed out at me when I tried to sort her out. I gather she was a bit stressed out since she went and hid in the cellar and needed some coaxing out.
This is turning into an essay, but my question is this: is there anyway that medication would help her behaviour? Mainly for the straying, but also to help keep her calm inside. She gets her own space and pretty much has her own room, but this doesn't really help. I really just want to keep her off the roads and alive and there's a limit to the other things I can try. We're also using Feliway.
Thanks.