I am posting this confession in the hope that Jaffa and Mosi will stop giving me "that" look and let bygones be bygones if I publicly confess my sins.
I am a bad meowmy. I am a sloppy, unhygienic meowmy. I am a disgraceful meowmy and being ill is no excuse.
The boys have 2 litter trays - a big hooded one in the living room and a big, open storage box in the bathroom. The bathroom tray was introduced about a year and a half ago when Jaffa decided he didn't like the hooded one anymore and after he sprayed a lot in the hall following one of my many floods and ensuing upheaval. Both then decided that was the best thing since sliced bread and abandoned the hooded tray. Once in a blue moon they used the hooded one and I like it being there as backup. It's handy to know there's a tray in there when Mosi gets put in time out!
A few months ago the hooded one suddenly became popular again following a replenish of the litter, although the bathroom one was still the favourite and gradually they abandoned the hooded one again.
Anyway, a few weeks ago I realised that the litter in the hooded one was running a bit low but it was the end of the month financially and I couldn't afford enough litter to refill that huge tray as well as keep the bathroom tray nicely topped up so I decided to leave it until I restocked the cat litter. If they didn't like it without much litter, they could just use the other one which is what they were doing anyway. I kept giving it a visual check (it has no door) to see whether it had been used so that I could clean it but it never had although I could see that the litter was so low you could see the bottom of the tray through the litter in places. Eventually I got new litter and went to clean and refill the hooded tray. Imagine my horror when I took the hood off and discovered what I'd thought was the tray showing through was actually patches of mouldy litter! The boys gave me the evil eye but I just scrubbed, disinfected and refilled the tray. Immediately it was used by both and ever since then they have used the hooded tray more than the bathroom one. And every time they use it they give me the evil eye. I swear they do - as they step out of it they look at me in that way that only a cat can to remind me of my appalling lack of litter tray hygiene and how could I do that to them? Don't I know that they love that litter tray and I am a terrible meowmy to deprive them of it? And as for letting it get into that state - absolutely disgusting! They are showing no signs of letting go of this grudge.
Ok boys, I agree with you. But please, let it go now. Are you going to make me feel bad about this forever? It's all nice and clean and filled with clean litter now so can we call it a truce? Please?