hi, im lisa i have a 1 yr old cat called gypsy star, shes the love of my life and is treated like one of the kids, my family dote on her, and even tho my hubby was brought up by his dad to hate cats, he loves her to bits says she best pet hes ever had.. thankfully. it took me 17 yrs to get round him to let me have a cat and now hes wishes we had had cats all along.. he says he wud rather have a thousand cats instead of a dog. she sleeps on his stomach while he watches tv in bed. yes shes in our bed every chance she gets and we dont mind at all.. so now hes allowed me to look for more kittens to join our madhouse