Can scratching ears and shaking the head be overgrooming?
Tallulah does not seem stressed so I turned the Feliway off as a trial - demanding cuddles, purring loads, VERY playful, eating well, using the tray normally, not hiding/ retreating (on my bed or lap from day one), not over or under grooming, exploring the whole flat, letting me pick her up and even clip her nails! None of this changed when the Feliway was off. She was not even stressed in the carrier/ car on the day she arrived, just looking around then laying down no mewling. She doesn't seem to mind Noah's scent on stuff and is fascinated by other cats on YouTube and the pigeons outside! There are no other animals in the building AFAIK and the adjacent flat is vacant.
Plus Lulu was shaking her head and scratching in week one (whilst Feliway was on), hence I messaged asking when parasites were last zapped and what with. Monday's head-shaking/ scratching extravaganza was several days after Feliway was switched off, immediately after sleep and well before the hair-related upset. The only other thing could be food ... now wondering if the scratching has coincided with a couple of slightly runny bum days.
Anyway Feliway will stay on and the vet will look at her ears; if there are no mites we will have to think again. Maybe I am missing subtle signs, indoor cats are not the same beasties as outdoor cats you see a different side to them. Wish they could talk or better still I wish I could talk cat.