Tufty is a mess. He's the first long haired cat I've owned and now that I've formally adopted him I guess I'd better get good at grooming.
Basically when we first trapped him as a stray his fur was so horribly matted the whole of each flank had to be clipped away by the vet, along with several large unsightly clumps from his huge tail.
Now he's neutered, cleaned up and (nearly) socialised, his fur is growing back, but it's so fine - more like wool than hair - it is starting to clump up again. I get as close as I can with my fingers, comb and a zoom groom the vet recommended, but Tufty's dead against me touching his tail and tummy.
Is there such a thing as conditioning oil I could put on my hands and run through his fluffiest bits to stop the knots forming and reduce the pulling? I think if I could get him used to being massaged like this he might come round to enjoying his grooming sessions. Here's a pic so you get the idea...