I am the same as Gill - they ask and i obey
Feed when ask, open doors whilst they sit and look at it , wipe noses when they sneeze , and they all come to bed with me -but i don''t always get up when they want me to !
Yes, i will be late going somewhere if they need anything.
Once i was over 1 hour late going to a cat show as Winston wouldn''t come in and i couldn''t find him- i knew he was in the neighbours garden under some bushes but he wouldn't come out till he was ready !