TAKEN THIS FROM A PET BEREAVEMENT BOARD I GO ON
We've lost a member of our family.
About a month ago, Mimsy, my 11-year-old cat was happy,healthy and playful. She's been with me since I was in my 20's. She has been the one constant in my life through life changes, family loss, relationships lost and now had become the beloved pet of my husband and 3 kids. Through every change she was the one thing I could count on.
She started vomiting, became lethargic and stopped eating. When I took her to the vet they discovered she was in kidney failure. I brought her home and tried every idea the vet gave me. She went from 10 lbs to 4 lbs. Last Saturday, I took her back to the vet and was told there was nothing left they could do. I asked what would happen if I took her home and they said she would die within a few hours because she was so dehydrated. We decided it would be easier for her to put her to sleep. It was so awful. She was so dehydrated they couldn't find a vein and had to inject her directly into her heart. I held my baby as she passed away.
On Monday my vet called and asked what type of food Mimsy had been on. It was then that we discovered she had been eating the pet food that was recalled. It hurt bad enought to know she had just gotten sick and it was just life. But now, it's because of someone's negligance and possibly on purpose. Friday it came out in the news that it was rat poison in the pet food. Did someone do this on purpose?
I just can't stop crying. How long does it take to stop feeling sad? I'm trying to keep it together, especially because of my kids. My children has never experienced death before. My 4-year-old keeps asking if she can go to heaven to see Mimsy.
And is it too soon to get my girls each a kitten? We were going to get them kittens this spring (since that is when most are available) but decided not to when Mimsy got sick. But now is it too soon?
Thanks for listening to me...I think my family doesn't know what to do with me at the moment. And some people have even said "It was just a cat".....I had to walk away from this particular co-worker!