Well Tabitha has well and truly got the boys wrapped around her little paw! She is definitely the domiant female and has them running around after her all the time. She gets to snuggle with all of them, gets licked and washed by all 3 boys whenever she demands and then has play fights whenever she instigates them! She certainly has 3 very good friends now! I'm going to try and take some more piccies over the next few days. She's still very tiny but I can tell she has grown.
When she ahd her 2nd vax, the vet was very pleased with the weight she had put on but did advise us that she was likely to always be 'petite' so will probably be kitten sized for longer!