when Tiffany was spending her nights shut in my neighbour's porch, and her days in my house and enclosure, he saw no need to spend money on getting her spayed, and I couldn't get her done without his knowledge
but I was concerned toms might climb into the enclosure, so a local rescue gave me a voucher for him, and I made up the amount to cover the full cost (I told him the cash was a local CP donation and the voucher came from HQ) and it worked - but he could easily have afforded it himself