but you won't want to set him back by trapping him for a vet visit, Miriam, I'm sure
I have the same problem with Tosker, and have decided to live with it until I can get close enough to put some Stronghold on him
the way I see it - if a young adult cat is eating well and is otherwise fit and healthy fleas, mites and worms won't kill him - sometimes physical wellbeing has to take second place to psychological wellbeing for a while