Hi Christine, Bobby was given to me by a friend who could not find a home for his last kitten, and I took him with every intention of keeping him FOREVER! Which is why this is so hard... He's a little darling! And Kyle, well, Kyle is Kyle... And we love him the way he is (snobby, independant, gives love when he feels like it!) - that's just Kyle, but we all love him regardless of his lack of affection!