Topic: God Bless Max, I will miss you always xxx - 1 Year Already (Read 23921 times)

clarenmax · « **Reply #52 on:** August 21, 2009, 11:29:19 AM »

I think if ever there was going to be a sign, that was most definitely it

that he wanted me to offer a forever home to another FIV boy in need

JackSpratt · « **Reply #51 on:** August 21, 2009, 10:32:02 AM »

I firmly believe it's not always a rainbow.

And yes, I think sending Poot was a wonderful way of showing you he loved you.

Janeyk · « **Reply #50 on:** August 20, 2009, 16:42:59 PM »

Clare

clarenmax · « **Reply #49 on:** August 20, 2009, 16:25:45 PM »

I've not had my rainbow yet, but I think that you've been too busy sending Poot to me, and looking over us to do it just yet baby

Leanne · « **Reply #48 on:** August 20, 2009, 16:19:00 PM »

Max you got on the shelves you always wanted to climb, I'm just sorry its been in this way.

Keep playing hard on the bridge sweetheart

clarenmax · « **Reply #47 on:** August 19, 2009, 11:28:24 AM »

Quote from: chrisleitz on August 19, 2009, 11:24:29 AM

Clare, I am so sorry. I've been away and just only saw this. Words fail me. RIP Max.

Thank you hunnie

xx

chrisleitz · « **Reply #46 on:** August 19, 2009, 11:24:29 AM »

Clare, I am so sorry. I've been away and just only saw this. Words fail me. RIP Max.

maryas · « **Reply #45 on:** August 13, 2009, 13:35:04 PM »

Well done Max - you got on that ruddy shelf at last.

God bless Max.

I felt so satisfied when I buried Smudge in the garden next to the heather that he would always lay on for hours and squash.

to you Clare.

Mary x

alisonandarchie · « **Reply #44 on:** August 13, 2009, 01:20:56 AM »

**TINA** · « **Reply #43 on:** August 12, 2009, 22:47:05 PM »

Bazsmum · « **Reply #42 on:** August 12, 2009, 22:23:22 PM »

I think thats a lovely gesture to put him on the shelves he was always so curious about!

Janeyk · « **Reply #41 on:** August 12, 2009, 21:15:14 PM »

Max back home where he belongs

The casket sounds just like the ones we have clare, they are very nice and yes it is very emotional

clarenmax · « **Reply #40 on:** August 12, 2009, 20:48:40 PM »

I collected my boy's ashes today, I had no idea what to expect, but they are in a lovely wooden casket with a plaque on the top with Max's name engraved

I was OK for a while, but as soon as I bought him through the door I got really upset for a few minutes

My boy is back where he should be, at the moment he's on the shelves he always wanted to play on, but was never allowed. I thought I'd let him have a look up there after all

Desley (booktigger) · « **Reply #39 on:** August 10, 2009, 07:53:47 AM »

That is a lovely picture, and it is good that he only appeared ill for the last couple of weeks

Janeyk · « **Reply #38 on:** August 10, 2009, 06:40:05 AM »

awww lovely photo Clare

alisonandarchie · « **Reply #37 on:** August 09, 2009, 19:08:39 PM »

Just got back from holiday and so shocked to hear news Clare.

I am so so sorry.

RIP you beautiful boy

**TINA** · « **Reply #36 on:** August 08, 2009, 21:23:48 PM »

Max XXXX

Handsome boy, my Splitz will find you, and you can play together XXXXX

JackSpratt · « **Reply #35 on:** August 08, 2009, 21:22:38 PM »

I know what you mean. I actually fluctuated between being really happy that Toby had been loved as much as he had with us, and feeling miserable I didn't get to give him cuddles and show him I still did love him.

With Parsley it was such a rapid situation I just ended up crying for days because the shock was immense.

Glad you can look at his films without getting sad; I think it's wonderful that you've got something like that to remember him by.

maryas · « **Reply #34 on:** August 08, 2009, 20:58:00 PM »

Mary

clarenmax · « **Reply #33 on:** August 08, 2009, 20:36:27 PM »

He always was a big strong boy, bit of a bruiser really

Put it this way, you knew if you'd annoyed him

I can smile about him now, which I didn't think would be possible - I was watching some videos on my phone earlier and didnt cry, it was so lovely looking at him before he became ill, which was realistically only the last 2 weeks of his life, and it was wonderful to see him when he was happy, healthy, and so obviously enjoying his life, which is an enormous comfort to us as we know that for 9 years, we did good

JackSpratt · « **Reply #32 on:** August 08, 2009, 20:27:16 PM »

He was a beast, wasn't he? What a strong looking lad.

The numbness fades, honestly Clare. You don't stop missing them but you start to smile again when you think about them after a while.

clarenmax · « **Reply #31 on:** August 08, 2009, 15:10:26 PM »

Thanks hun

The only tell tale sign that he was ill was his skinny back end, he was almost concave as he lost so much weight so quickly, so when he was standing up you could see it. When he was lying down he looked just fine

Bazsmum · « **Reply #30 on:** August 08, 2009, 15:08:15 PM »

That pic is beautiful, what a lovely big boy he was....to look at him you would not of thought he was even ill there!

melysion · « **Reply #29 on:** August 08, 2009, 13:20:19 PM »

So sorry you lost him, Clare.

RIP Max

clarenmax · « **Reply #28 on:** August 08, 2009, 12:08:28 PM »

This was taken the day before we let him go

Please excuse my ugly mug

Bazsmum · « **Reply #27 on:** August 07, 2009, 12:36:12 PM »

maryas · « **Reply #26 on:** August 07, 2009, 11:22:05 AM »

I know what you mean Clare - it's like walking around like a Zombie or a robot. Doing things but can't remember doing them or how the hell you managed to do them.

You'll get there girl and I'm sure Max will have found Smudge at the Bridge by now.

Mary

clarenmax · « **Reply #25 on:** August 07, 2009, 08:49:30 AM »

My baby boy, I can't believe its a week since I let you go, its funny, I've been going to work, doing all the usual things I would do, but none of it, absolutely none of it, is the same without my Mr Max doing it with me

I hope you've made lots of friends up on the Bridge sweetheart, and don't forget to try and send me that rainbow when you've learned how, I'd be so much happier if I knew that you were OK xxxxx

miriambuddy · « **Reply #24 on:** August 03, 2009, 09:23:11 AM »

sweet dreams Max, your mum is always with you

Tan · « **Reply #23 on:** August 01, 2009, 22:53:47 PM »

Specially for you Max - http://www.purrsinourhearts.co.uk/index.php/topic,26724.msg468923.html#msg468923

bunglycat · « **Reply #22 on:** August 01, 2009, 22:41:18 PM »

So sorry Clare

RIP Max -a very special boy and loved so much .

MrsR · « **Reply #21 on:** August 01, 2009, 22:13:38 PM »

Mojo · « **Reply #20 on:** August 01, 2009, 18:01:50 PM »

Oh no Clare I am so sorry!

RIP Max you beautiful boy.

Take care Clare.

Gwen · « **Reply #19 on:** August 01, 2009, 17:47:50 PM »

RIP Max,play hard at the bridge little one

Clare

CC & The Pussycat Guys & Dolls · « **Reply #18 on:** August 01, 2009, 13:01:38 PM »

Oh Clare I dont know what to say hun

You gave Max a chance and Im sure he had the most wonderfull life with you, something he maybe wouldnt of had

Night night Max send your mummy a rainbow xxx

ChrisB · « **Reply #17 on:** July 31, 2009, 21:37:36 PM »

Clare, I am so sorry - my thoughts are with you. Dear Max, you could not have been more loved and cared for and I know you gave back so much happiness in return, such a gorgeous boy who will be forever missed.

MrsR · « **Reply #16 on:** July 31, 2009, 20:44:54 PM »

Play hard Max, I know you will and I know you and my Vesti and Sofa are all playing together x

bonnielass · « **Reply #15 on:** July 31, 2009, 20:22:35 PM »

RIP MAX and send your mum a sign when you can

Janeyk · « **Reply #14 on:** July 31, 2009, 19:30:47 PM »

awwww Clare I'm so sorry

a gorgeous boy who will be sorely missed

RIP Max sweetie xxx

sheryl · « **Reply #13 on:** July 31, 2009, 19:06:37 PM »

Nite Nite Max - RIP sweetheart, Play hard at the bridge and send your Mummy a sign when you can. xxx

Thinking of you Clare xxx

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