Topic: Phoebe is gone (Read 32415 times)

Desley (booktigger) · « **Reply #30 on:** July 24, 2009, 08:00:37 AM »

Pav, I am so sorry to read this, I am in tears for you, it is so hard to lose our babies, but when you lose two so close together it is so much harder, especially when her recent tests weren't so bad. I have had similar comments to you about not getting oldies cos of the pain, but it is offset by the knowledge that they were in a home environment with one on one and people who loved them, rather than sat in a rescue, and some of our cats wouldnt' have had nearly as long if we hadn't taken them - the people who say things like that just dont understand the selflessness of taking these cats in over a young, healthy cat but we are the lucky ones, we get to share our lives with these wonderful cats, for however long. RIP Phoebe, you had a fantastic mum who gave you everything she possibly could

If you want to talk, you have my number xx

Cat_Crazy · « **Reply #29 on:** July 24, 2009, 00:55:23 AM »

Such sad news

You're in my thoughts.

Jasmine · « **Reply #28 on:** July 24, 2009, 00:48:35 AM »

Pav, I'm so sorry, it's a lot of heartache to cope with losing two friends within such a short space of time.

I truly believe their spirits will live on though, and remain close to you forever - happy that they finally experienced such love and kindness during their time with you. And you do have family you know - the Purrs family

Good Night Phoebe
God Bless

Jas
X

bunglycat · « **Reply #27 on:** July 24, 2009, 00:44:42 AM »

Pav , i am so unbelievably sorry about Phoebe ( her and Boy were always included when i ask my bridge babies to send healing vibes down for all the poorly kitties down here ) so soon after Boy too .

The thing is you let them go with dignity and they didn''t suffer - and thats the kindest last thing you can do for them.
Its the worst feeling in the world and the hardest thing to ever to learn to live without them .

I personally have suffered more from losing my cats than any member of my family .
Reading all this thread has set me off too now - my eyes are watering for all the bridge babies .

Phoebe -reunited with Boy and all the bridge babies to play with till your mummy comes for you .

Gill (sneakiefeline) · « **Reply #26 on:** July 24, 2009, 00:24:16 AM »

That made me cry and you are so kind.

You are right, its about helping a cat who has no one and you have helped many

I remember when Kocka went to the Bridge and all her things were everywhere and I didnt want to move them. I still have everything in a box upstairs, not brave enough to look at them but I still have her in my heart as I am sure you do with all of yours.

It takes loads of time to get over something like this and I am pleased that your vet was kind and understanding and that Phoebe passed over quietly and calmly, I think its sign of a good vet

Janeyk · « **Reply #25 on:** July 24, 2009, 00:22:16 AM »

so sorry Pav you did the right thing by Phoebe. What people say to you they say the same to me don't get old poorly cats then but I think well if I don't who will so we just have to be strong or we can't do this

when you want to talk I am here any time Pav you know that you're never alone. I'll be thinking of you xx

pappilon · « **Reply #24 on:** July 24, 2009, 00:17:46 AM »

Thankyou

I know most of us been there and know of the pain, it never get easier.I asked the vet if he puts her under fluid all night she may feel better but he said they dont have 24 hours facility and she may need oxigen and i could take her to vet24 and they monitor her there, but Phoebe was scared of strangers and i thought the stress of taking her there, also the vet tonight was her own vet he knew how to handle her i didnt want my baby to be scared. After taking the X-rays he brought her back upstairs and she just sat in a corner stearing at the wall thats what she is been doing at home and then the vet said to me this is no life , he said he thinks she is trying to die and he said she is really sick i asked him 2 days ago all the results were ok but he said he thinks its some thing in her brain causing the twitching and its too many things wrong with her, i asked him if she is in pain and he said she has no life in her whats is the point of keeping her like this, he was really nice and understanding he said if it was his pet he would let her go, i didnt want to loose her she was my baby, i dont have any family and when i lost DD i called some friends but they all said the same thing that i lost so many cats whats speciall about this one or they said get a younger cat next time so you dont have to go through this

They dont understand its not about me its about helping a cat which no one else wanted and thats what i kept telling my self in the surgury that its not about you, you have to let her go , may be i could keep her going few more weeks but i know its selfish. I got her so many new blankets and bed on Sunday in Mayhew opening day she never got to use them, and every where i look its her things.
Thanks Baggy for reassuring me, i just didnt want her to get sick or suffer when she was passing away, and thankyou every one for listening to me i am sorry if i dont make sense i cant see , have to keep wiping my glasses, she looked so beautiful after she was PTS, the vet helped me to clean her face and said she is gone with dignity

I am going to log off now and go upstairs and clean everything all her food and water is on my bed and then i am going to sit outside the foxes will come soon.
Thanks Janey and Gillian for your numbers but i cant talk right now, but thankyou. Maybe one day soon.

Denise070 · « **Reply #23 on:** July 23, 2009, 23:43:55 PM »

Golden Memories
They say memories are golden, well, maybe that is true.
I never wanted memories, I only wanted you.
A million times I cried.

If love alone could have saved you, you never would have died.
In life I loved you dearly, in death I love you still.
In my heart you hold a place no one else could fill.
If tears could build a stairway and heartache make a lane.
I'd walk the path to Heaven and bring you back again.
Our family chain is broken, and nothing seems the same.
But as God calls us back one by one, the chain will link again.

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Daisymac · « **Reply #22 on:** July 23, 2009, 23:19:31 PM »

Pav, I am so so sorry Darling, life is awful sometimes. We are all here for you, whenever you want to talk, just let us know. I will be thinking of you honey.

RIP Phoebe, play hard on the bridge baby xxxxxx

alisonandarchie · « **Reply #21 on:** July 23, 2009, 23:16:16 PM »

So sorry Pav

Tiggy's Mum · « **Reply #20 on:** July 23, 2009, 23:10:08 PM »

So sorry Pav

You really did give her the greatest gift

RIP Phoebe, safe and sound at the Bridge until your Mum is ready to collect you xx

Tan · « **Reply #19 on:** July 23, 2009, 23:08:09 PM »

Oh Pav hun

You have just done the most loving thing you could of done for her. She knows that hun and your love for her has saved her from alot of pain.
It's gonna be alot of pain for you ,most of us know that awful hurt and are with you every step of the way.

Hun, She will never leave you, she and Boy will always be with you in your heart. If ya ever wanted to talk to them they will hear you. One day Pav hun when it's our time, we will be with them again, we will be able to cuddle and hold them . Until then, they know, they can see how much we love them , they become our guardian angels and always watch over us.
Only her life on earth has passed but her life soul carries on in you and on the bridge.

sweet girl, you rest easy now, play lots with Boy and all our wonderful babes on the bridge till we see you all again.

Rosella moggy · « **Reply #18 on:** July 23, 2009, 23:07:07 PM »

Oh Pav. So very very sorry to hear about Phoebe. You had no choice at all and did the kindest thing possible as quickly as you could. You could do no more. I really grieve for you

Phoebe is at rest now. Try to be kind to yourself

Mark · « **Reply #17 on:** July 23, 2009, 23:02:38 PM »

Sorry Pav, I can't imagine how you feel. You tried so hard for your baby but had no choice in the matter. We are here for you - you know that

Kay and Penny · « **Reply #16 on:** July 23, 2009, 23:02:27 PM »

nothing can take the pain away, Pav

you have to suffer so that Phoebe doesn't have to any more - but we all know how very hard it is, and how inadequate words are

Denise070 · « **Reply #15 on:** July 23, 2009, 23:01:33 PM »

Quote from: Gill (sneakiefeline) on July 23, 2009, 22:51:16 PM

She has gone to sit outside cos she cant talk but I am in the chat room if she wants to come in

I dont know Pav, but i really am feeling her heart ache, i lost a young dog last november and the memory of the complete horror, shock and disbelieve that they have gone is still very fresh.

Losing your pet is the worst thing

Gillian Harvey · « **Reply #14 on:** July 23, 2009, 22:59:07 PM »

Pav, I'm so sorry

It sounds like you did the right thing for Pheobe, but it doesnt make it any easier I know, its just not fair.

Baggy · « **Reply #13 on:** July 23, 2009, 22:56:26 PM »

Quote from: pappilon on July 23, 2009, 22:42:47 PM

Hew gave a sedative in her leg thats when she was sick, are you sure they dont realize when they get sick he tried to do it in her tummy but she was crying then he tried her leg and then gave her the last injection , i just lost Boy i cant deall with this now.

It happened when Dinah went to the Bridge too, but they feel so sleepy so quickly I'm sure she won't have realised

clarenmax · « **Reply #12 on:** July 23, 2009, 22:51:43 PM »

Oh sweetheart, I really don't know what to say

Just know we're all here for you, and we will all be grieving with you, when anyone loses a beloved furbaby, we all feel your pain, especially with those who's progress we have followed for a while

PM me there's anything I can do hunnie xxxxxx

Gill (sneakiefeline) · « **Reply #11 on:** July 23, 2009, 22:51:16 PM »

She has gone to sit outside cos she cant talk but I am in the chat room if she wants to come in

Janeyk · « **Reply #10 on:** July 23, 2009, 22:49:24 PM »

Pav give me a call if you like

I don't have your no but you have mine - ring me xx

Topsy Turvey · « **Reply #9 on:** July 23, 2009, 22:48:23 PM »

go into chat honey x

Gill (sneakiefeline) · « **Reply #8 on:** July 23, 2009, 22:44:26 PM »

Pav come into the chat room , I am there

pappilon · « **Reply #7 on:** July 23, 2009, 22:42:47 PM »

Hew gave a sedative in her leg thats when she was sick, are you sure they dont realize when they get sick he tried to do it in her tummy but she was crying then he tried her leg and then gave her the last injection , i just lost Boy i cant deall with this now.

Topsy Turvey · « **Reply #6 on:** July 23, 2009, 22:40:14 PM »

Pav honey you did the right thing for Phoebe. My heart goes out to you at this sad time xxxx

Baggy · « **Reply #5 on:** July 23, 2009, 22:38:10 PM »

Oh, I'm so sorry, I know it's so hard but it is the kindest and bravest thing we can do at times like this

She won't have realised she was being sick. RIP Phoebe

Gill (sneakiefeline) · « **Reply #4 on:** July 23, 2009, 22:37:48 PM »

Have Pmed you Pav

I am so terrible sorry to hear about Phoebe but I am sure that you have done the kindest thing for her.

She now shares a Bridge Day with Kocka who is having a party to night so guess that DD and Boy will be there to welcome Phoebe

RIP Pheobe. play hard little one and you are now with your friends again

Denise070 · « **Reply #3 on:** July 23, 2009, 22:31:20 PM »

Thinking of you at this sad time, to lose a loved pet is the hardest thing, but you did the most selfless act and helped your furbaby. She is now out of pain

Run free sweet Phoebe
(((((((((hugs))))))))))Pappilon
xxxx

pappilon · « **Reply #2 on:** July 23, 2009, 22:27:26 PM »

Please if some one is on line can you post something i need to talk, my neighbours are all out.

pappilon · « **Reply #1 on:** July 23, 2009, 22:26:19 PM »

My baby is dead

I cant believe this is happening. she came downstairs and couldnt walk she started crying in like she was is pain and i tried to talk to her then she tried to get up and her legs was wobbly her breathing was slow i called the duty vet and too her in, he said she is gone to shock i dont understand why her heart was really slow , oh god this is so painfull he took morex-ray of her lungs he said he doesnt know what caused the shock my poor baby we had to put her to sleep she was sick all over he said its the kindest thing cos cats like this usually die in couple of days and its very painfull death i had to do it for her he said its the kindest thing . Phoebe

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