OMG Liz, what a wonderful home you have, it sounds like heaven! With all those rooms you could take in a lodger,i.e. me and my Ollie, with a gorgeous semi feral, you wouldn't even notice us lol.
Gill, i took him to Cramar when i knew i was being made redundant, and couldn't just leave him I EVENTUALLY caught his mommy-19 days after i'd left!- but she was found to have leukemia and a tumour, so was pts.I was devastated cos they were so close and i know he would've settled in the paddocks with her there. (All the frustrations and heartaches are on Catchat on my thread 'Advice needed on factory cats after redundancy (tho' it may have been archived now! ) and in Lost and Found, same title as this, if you fancy a read!!) I live about 4 miles from work.
Sam, i'm actually scared to death now. After a terrible night's sleep (again) i,m wondering if i can do it. I'm so worried it will spoil the relationship between me and Ollie. Also, finances, or lack of them. Once my redundancy money has gone, i'll be living on £64.30 a week dole money. How can i keep myself and one cat on that, never mind two! I love grey baby to bits, but i wish there was another option for him. I feel so bad now.