Hi everyone...
I need some advice. There is a cat that has been adopted by me and my wife but he has never settled anywhere and has many homes. The only way I can demonstrate any ownership is that we pay for his vet bills and keep an eye on his health. Loads of friends have said I should trap him in my home so he gets used to mine being his 'main' home but I can't help but feel he is his own cat and should come and go as he pleases...
am I being a big wuss? Is it time for tough love?
I have never had a cat before I am a clean canvass for education...
Thank you