Author Topic: Chemotherapy  (Read 12847 times)

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Re: Chemotherapy
« Reply #77 on: April 21, 2009, 02:19:41 AM »
Thanks MM  :hug:

The little card sounds lovely, a little touch like this makes all the difference  :hug: :hug:

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Re: Chemotherapy
« Reply #76 on: April 20, 2009, 23:44:06 PM »
You made the right decision. Heartbreaking though it was, the poems have made me cry. Hugs to MM
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Re: Chemotherapy
« Reply #75 on: April 19, 2009, 17:45:07 PM »
The card inside reads
"Your presence we miss,
your memory we treasure.

Loving you always,
in our thoughts forever"

 :hug: for you Gill, they say time heals but it never quite fills the void  :(


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Re: Chemotherapy
« Reply #74 on: April 19, 2009, 01:50:37 AM »
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Re: Chemotherapy
« Reply #73 on: April 18, 2009, 23:48:08 PM »
I have a box upstairs with all Kockas things in, I cant bear to open it yet and its 4 years this year.

I so understand how you feel and I am pleased that Milly is back with you  :hug: :hug:

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Re: Chemotherapy
« Reply #72 on: April 18, 2009, 22:23:55 PM »
Oh gosh, how did I manage to miss this?  So sorry you have lost your beloved Milly, MM  :hug:  :(

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Re: Chemotherapy
« Reply #71 on: April 18, 2009, 21:51:58 PM »




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Re: Chemotherapy
« Reply #70 on: April 18, 2009, 20:44:10 PM »
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Re: Chemotherapy
« Reply #69 on: April 18, 2009, 18:55:01 PM »
Millys ashes came home yesterday  :Luv: the longest 2 weeks, there was 2 weekends in that including the long easter one but i was getting really impatient to have her home.
Tabitha has attempted to take over toilet duties but shes far too demanding so the vacancy is still open  :(


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Re: Chemotherapy
« Reply #68 on: April 08, 2009, 19:24:58 PM »
I havnt sorted out her things yet...........

 :hug:  :hug:.  I still have some of Tiny's toys and he went to the bridge over 5 years ago.  I was heartbroken when I stood on his favourite multi-coloured ping-pong ball and squashed it beyond repair.  We're all here for you.

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Re: Chemotherapy
« Reply #67 on: April 08, 2009, 19:06:35 PM »
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Re: Chemotherapy
« Reply #66 on: April 08, 2009, 19:04:39 PM »
The house just isnt right without her, she really did have such a presence around her, i always called her Queen Milly and its like loosing the boss  :(
I havnt sorted out her things yet, theres a cupboard i wont open as its full of food for her. Havent washed her crate yet either so thats still in my room  :'(
If i ignore everything i can pretend it never happened i guess


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Re: Chemotherapy
« Reply #65 on: April 07, 2009, 13:43:30 PM »
I'm so sorry sweetheart, I've only just seen this thread  :hug:  :hug:

RIP little one, safely on the Bridge now, and what an amazing sign you sent your mummy, play hard baby xxx

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Re: Chemotherapy
« Reply #64 on: April 07, 2009, 09:50:40 AM »
How You doing MM ?

You are in my thoughts  :hug:

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Re: Chemotherapy
« Reply #63 on: April 06, 2009, 20:17:33 PM »
Sorry that you had to let her go MM - but what a wondrful sign she sent you from the Bridge  :hug:

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Re: Chemotherapy
« Reply #62 on: April 06, 2009, 20:14:17 PM »
Oh MM Im so, so sorry hun  :( But in the end you took the right decision to not let her suffer anymore  :hug:

RIP Milly, run free at the Rainbow Bridge xxxx
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Re: Chemotherapy
« Reply #61 on: April 06, 2009, 12:41:01 PM »
So sorry to hear this MM, both you and Milly were so brave.

Enjoy yourself at the bridge Milly, go and see my Cleo and Sophie and all the other Purrs babes and they will look after you.

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Re: Chemotherapy
« Reply #60 on: April 06, 2009, 11:12:01 AM »
I am so sorry.

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Re: Chemotherapy
« Reply #59 on: April 06, 2009, 10:09:18 AM »
It was the final act of kindness you could do for her. God bless you for giving her the love and care she deserved during her time with you. Thinking of you.

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Re: Chemotherapy
« Reply #58 on: April 05, 2009, 18:26:33 PM »
I am so sorry for your loss.  Putting Milly's needs before your own was the greatest gift you could have given.  My thoughts are with you.
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Re: Chemotherapy
« Reply #57 on: April 05, 2009, 18:16:43 PM »
Its so quiet without her  :( and i have no one watching me go to the loo, strange how you get used to going with an observer  :Luv2:
I wish i could have had much longer than 3 years together, Milly Moo Bags i miss you  :'(
Know exactly how you feel. I miss Rufus every day but in time it does get easier. Even though you had a short time, it was a great time and that's what you will both have remembered.  :hug:

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Re: Chemotherapy
« Reply #56 on: April 05, 2009, 18:05:36 PM »
Its so quiet without her  :( and i have no one watching me go to the loo, strange how you get used to going with an observer  :Luv2:
I wish i could have had much longer than 3 years together, Milly Moo Bags i miss you  :'(


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Re: Chemotherapy
« Reply #55 on: April 05, 2009, 17:57:06 PM »
Oh I didnt log on yesterday so only just seen this - so sorry to hear about Milly, so very sad and a hard decision, but I sounds like you made the right one for her  :hug: What a lovely sign she sent you  :Luv:

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Re: Chemotherapy
« Reply #54 on: April 05, 2009, 10:25:40 AM »
I am so very sorry to hear this, but you gave her the best chance possible in case it was something treatable, and then strong enough to set her free - what a wonderful sign she sent in return. RIP little one.
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Re: Chemotherapy
« Reply #53 on: April 05, 2009, 10:10:12 AM »
So very sorry, take comfort that you were always able to put Milly`s needs before your own  :hug:

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Re: Chemotherapy
« Reply #52 on: April 05, 2009, 02:14:11 AM »
So sorry to hear the sad news...... :( :hug: :hug:

RIP Sweet Milly......Im sure it was you showing mummy you are at peace....

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Re: Chemotherapy
« Reply #51 on: April 05, 2009, 00:22:36 AM »
I feel so much for you - you gave her a wonderful life, and the very best death you could - no owner can do more :hug:
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Re: Chemotherapy
« Reply #50 on: April 04, 2009, 23:18:20 PM »
So very sorry to hear this  , RIP Milly ,play hard at the bridge. :hug: :hug:



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Re: Chemotherapy
« Reply #49 on: April 04, 2009, 23:10:44 PM »
Oh MM I am so very sorry to hear this sad news and I am sure you did what was best for Milly. I am so pleased she sent you an amazing sign to say I have arrived safe and thank you for loving me so much  :hug: :hug: :hug:

RIP Milly, play hard on the Bridge and you are loved for ever

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Re: Chemotherapy
« Reply #48 on: April 04, 2009, 22:52:47 PM »
RIP Milly  :(  So sorry to read your news, MM  :hug:

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Re: Chemotherapy
« Reply #47 on: April 04, 2009, 21:29:11 PM »
Oh MM I am so so sorry  :hug: I am crying with you  :hug:

I havent stopped thinking about You and Milly since your post yesterday...I knew what You were going to do.

Can I just say, You are a brave, wonderful and caring Mummy...Who loved Milly so much that You have ended her suffering.

Sending You lots of love......
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RIP Milly.....Well done for sending Mummy a sign so quickly.
I have been telling Issey about You, Now i have just cried into her fur as I have told her You are now playing on the Bridge.
Have fun till Mummy comes to meet You xxxx

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Re: Chemotherapy
« Reply #46 on: April 04, 2009, 21:08:10 PM »
So sorry MM, XX  :hug:
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Re: Chemotherapy
« Reply #45 on: April 04, 2009, 21:07:45 PM »
Sorry MM   :(

You must be in bits  :hug:
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Re: Chemotherapy
« Reply #44 on: April 04, 2009, 21:00:50 PM »
 I am so sorry MM. :hug: :hug:

RIP sweet Milly. :'( x

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Re: Chemotherapy
« Reply #43 on: April 04, 2009, 20:58:13 PM »
Just sitting here shedding a tear for you... so sorry to hear about Milly but i think you are very brave to completely put her first. Well done Milly for giving your mummy a sign so quick. Play hard at the bridge sweetheart- RIP Milly xxx

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Re: Chemotherapy
« Reply #42 on: April 04, 2009, 20:56:23 PM »
So sorry to hear this

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Re: Chemotherapy
« Reply #41 on: April 04, 2009, 20:40:31 PM »
 :'( :'( :'( :'(  I am in bits for you MM.  It's always so very hard but you did the best thing you could for her and didn't prolong the inevitable.  My heart goes out to you  :hug: :hug: :hug:

RIP beautiful Milly  :(

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Re: Chemotherapy
« Reply #40 on: April 04, 2009, 20:37:43 PM »
I'm so sorry, I've only just read this.

Glad Milly sent you a sign straight away; she must've been eager to use all that energy she'll have at the Bridge. :hug:

RIP Milly, a very loved lady.




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Re: Chemotherapy
« Reply #39 on: April 04, 2009, 19:57:14 PM »
Lovely poem Helen thank you  :hug: :'(


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Re: Chemotherapy
« Reply #38 on: April 04, 2009, 19:40:51 PM »

She went straight to the bridge, an amazing ball of fire in the sky greeted us up the hill, there was no cloud just a brilliant red sun, my milly  :Luv: :Luv:

 :hug:  :hug: I can hardly type for the tears - thats so lovely and so terribly, terribly sad.

 


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