Chiriffmissy, please reconsider, this is a very friendly site.Your youth does not come into this. I have had cats for forty years and when I joined CC first and then Purrs I realised there was so much I didn't know. Things change over the years, if you think about it when I was a child cats were always given milk now we know it's not good for them. We are all open to anything that might help our cats. Any information we receive we can use it or ignore it as we wish.
I had a very elderly disabled neighbour and I asked him once how he kept so happy and bright. He said if he could learn one new fact a day it kept him going, because no one knows everything and if you are willing to learn it keeps your mind open and active.
I do hope you come back
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