Matty hasn't been around much since then but he has been coming again for the last few days soooooo this morning we brought him into the bedroom, he is a lovely (although scruffy) friendly boy, I would guess about 8/10ish. We have put him one of our cat's carriers in the bedroom as he seemed very nervous. I will ring our CP lady shortly and leave a message and hopefully she can arrange for us to take him in to the vets first thing (steve is off today and we are supposed to be going out) and get him neutered - if he hasn't been done, or at least checked over. I feel so sorry for him in the bedroom all this time but it has to be done, he was nervous but never scratched at all bless him, he must have had a home at some point.
The second picture is where I'd put the paper collar on before.
I did speak to CP about him the last time he was around and checked there were no cats of his description as lost, we think he is just a stray, he isn't as nervous as the ferals so I wouldn't put him as a feral, they said if we get him sorted they will put him up for homing. Fingers crossed xx