Maybe Liz meant "medicate"?
I know that true ferals can be tamed. Vic and Fred were born wild, so were their younger siblings. Some of the people I homed last year's rescues to have sent pics of them looking very happy. Alfie, one of the young set, definitely born wild, has settled happily with Rebekah's other 4 cats, and is very touchable.
The ones in my verandah are definitely feral. The mother (known to a neighbour as 'Dotty'), has been around the area for a long time. I think she's had kittens before. Her kittens were definitely born wild, I'm not 100% sure about Dotty.
No luck with a trap. I have a promise of one from Pauline, at WellCat, but the people who were supposed to have returned it yesterday, haven't. She's going to phone as soon as it's back. I've also contacted CP - no luck, though they are sending vouchers to spay mum and neuter her mate (who seems to have wandered off, she's got a new one, known locally as Socks, hanging around, maybe waiting for her to come into heat, maybe I'll do him!). I've also asked for the Inspector at the RSPCA who helped with food and a cat tree last year - she came round as the result of a complaint about there being lots of cats in the house - to see if she can help with a trap. She was great last year, though I had to insist that she didn't take the cats. She was fine about this as she could see how well I was taking care of them.
I'm thinking of buying a bloomin' trap! I've seen them on the 'net for £35. Worth it if I keep needing one. I was going to buy a microwave for Xmas (old one given up). Best laid plans.....
I'll chat to the vet later. Fingers crossed for Sam. Will let you know what he says about Sam, and the eartipping. Unfortunately, my friend Rebekah is very busy at the mo, so getting to another vet with an awkward feral might be difficult. I'll need her help to get the mother into a carrying cage anyway. (She'll be temporarily 'stored' in a kitten pen).
Maybe I should beging another thread.
How do I prevent mum and the other kittens from becoming trapwise? I'm concerned that mum, especially, will see a kitten in the trap and either refuse to go in herself, or move her other kittens. I really want to get mum before she gets preggers again. She may already be, but I don't think so. The kittens still half-heartedly suckle.
Also:
Should I immediately TNR mum? Or should I wait a while after she's been spayed, so that the kittens aren't deprived of her too soon. They're about 7-8wks old now. Will she make them harder to socialise if she remains?
Experienced rescue advice needed please. Thanks.
Sorry, didn't mean to write "War and Peace"