Well, she felt his bladder and it's ok, ie it's empty. He's obviously managed to pass urine today, even if we dont' know how long he's been doing it in small amounts for. She said it would be best to keep him in and start him on medication but that maybe she would hold off with putting a catheter in for a while. She said he could come home, but she recommended he stay there. She went to put him in a kennel and I asked if I could wait and go to see him and say goodbye to him once he was settled in. Then the nurse arrived and she recognised me and Jaffa. Knowing Jaffa's history (that he's very nervous at the vets) she discussed it with the vet and they both agreed that it might be better for me to bring him home since the stress of being at the vets may well cause him to hold on even if he is physically able to go. That's what had been on my mind and one of the reasons why it wasn't clear cut in the first place. And given he does not have a full bladder, she reckons it wil be ok to wait until tomorrow. If he's not peeing normally by teatime tomorrow, he will have to have the catheter put in.
So they've sent him home with some antibiotics and some metacam suspension for pain relief and told me to ring tomorrow. The same vet is on duty all weekend (who says it's a cushy life being a vet!) so I can ring her any time. I've just managed to stuff an antibiotic down him, and have lured him out from behind the sofa with some applaws. I'm ashamed to say I grabbed him mid snack and got the metacam into him. Needs must.
I'm keeping everything crossed hw will manage to go.