It's interesting how the dynamic of the household changes when there is someone missing. Don't hold your breath about Frankie joining you in bed - I have had cats who never do. They simply prefer to have the personal space that the loungeroom provides. Esther rarely comes up to the bedroom, but if she does, she leaves shortly after I go to bed and even if she stays, she clings to the tiniest furthest corner of the foot of the bed. Smidgen on the other hand occupies the dog's bed and Shadow goes and sleeps on the landing - they all have their little habits and it is sometimes a long time before they change, even with the opportunity to do so.
