Hi, as you know I am considering getting a companion cat for my recently bereaved siamese, who lost his sister of 12 years in June. I am still not sure if it is a good idea or not, Castle seems so much more relaxed and less howl-y and clingy than he did a couple of weeks ago. When I am here he is pretty much normal, as he would have been if his sister was still here - with just the occasional mewl and pace around the living room.
Part of me thinks Castle would benefit from feline company but then I wonder if he might get jealous of another cat getting my attention. Castle is a very loving cat and he was always first in the queue for cuddles, if his sister came for cuddles he would mostly push himself between me and her - letting her know that he was the alpha cat and therefore entitled to the cuddles. He never attacked her but he did make it obvious who was the boss - strangely, when she got ill he allowed her to have as many cuddles as she wanted without getting jealous and pushing her away! He just sat back and watched her being fussed.
With these doubts and questions in my mind I was thinking that perhaps it might be best to try fostering first, to see how he reacts. I know nothing about fostering at all i.e. would someone with a cat already be allowed to foster? What sort of home would be needed? Are foster homes needed for indoor-only cats? What facilities? How do you manage integrating cats to each other in a small-ish flat? etc. etc.
If anyone has any wisdom they can share on this I would appreciate it, or any fact sheets that they can send me links to?
Thanks