A couple of weekends ago, we put Riley and Skye (her first time) into our usual cattery for 2 nights, so we could go visit my mum in Nairn, to celebrate the opening of her B & B. Now, Riley has been to this cattery a good few times before, and it's a really excellent one, but he just doesn't do well at all. He doesn't eat properly, and loses between 200 - 500 grams depending on how long he is in for (and he is a slim cat already). He often comes back somewhat poorly, and this time was no exception. We had hoped that having Skye with him might have helped, but no. We always take lots of toys, bedding etc from home to make the place less strange, but he just doesn't cope well.
Each time he has come back and got ill, he ends up running a slight fever and being off his food / vomiting. Our vet has thoroughly investigared this (with the help of the cattery), and the conclusion is simple - Riley gets VERY stressed and anxious when in a cattery, so much so that his immune system is depressed and he gets mild, non-contagious (because Skye and the other cats are always fine) infections. This is by contrast to his utter delight and enjoyment at being taken away with us to various parts of the country to stay in B & Bs, self catering accomodation etc., for which he will happily endure up to 15 hours in the car with no problems at all.
I really don't know what we can do to make it easier on him - we've used feliway, familiar toys etc., and now a companion who he adores, and he still ends up horribly miserable and stressed during even very short stays. What should I do? We only put them into the cattery when there is no possibility of taking them with us, so we keep visits to a minimum, but the implications for his health and wellbeing are still a problem. I don't know anyone who could cat-sit for us (one of my frineds would love to, but she is terribly allergic). I'm particulary concerned as we will probably being going over to Ireland sometime soon to see Pete's new niece, and I don't want Riley getting ill again.