Denise, I hate the thought of a cage too, but it really is the best thing for feral kittens, they have to get used to you then. I ignored the advice with my scaredy adult foster the other year, and he just hid somewhere inacessible all the time, so I wish I had the advice. And it will be a lot harder to catch them now. The rescue I foster for also advised me to have Shadow in the front room in a cage, even though my cat room was empty at the time, that way they get used to things like the TV, people walking round etc.