Sharon, either way you see it, if we do Bromley, then the people from London are incurring costs, be it petrol or train... so London itself seems a more practical location so no one person is more out of pocket to get there than others? Don't mean to sound mean but if I get a tube I still have to pay for it, drive.. I have to pay for parking and petrol from North London... so to be fair to those in Ealing, Woking etc.. which are as far from Kent distance wise as those from London or west London it seems easier for peeps to meet in London.
I did suggest London Bridge or Waterloo earlier for those travelling by train and London peeps...?