Oh well, tears in my eyes yet again, just picked up her ashes, hadnt expected them back so soon, and once again, like Suzie, (although I was ready for it this time) there was a lock of her fur. I immediately took the casket into the kitchen and put it on the windowsill, as the sun was shining, and thats where she would lay - in a sunbeam. I can't leave it there though - well not with my clumsy lot! and I havent got any shelves where the casket could sit in the kitchen, so I cleared a space in the cupboard above where she used to sit next to the fridge and I've put it in there - sounds odd I know, in a kitchen cupboard, but the kitchen WAS her fav place, and I open that cupboard often (my herbs and spice cupboard) so it feels right.
I'd never have thought the windowsill was a comfy place to sleep, especially as its tiled, but she always looked comfy there: