lol hard this ain't it.
Oh T hun i sooooooooooo wish i was closer than a 6 hour one way trip cause i would have been over to Paws in yesterday and every day to help ya. In fact you wouldn;t be able to get rid of me
See i not sure about something and i wonder what ya all think. Jenny (charlie bear on here) who lives round the corner has two little lads and mum fostering for cat proection. They are 10 weeks old but the little short haired lad is actually the same size as me Garfy who is 14 weeks (15 on Tuesday) now i heard that it the size and personality that really matters trying to find a good match so if little newbie is same size as Garf now but month younger will that cause trouble in ranks when they mature of age ? (Esp as these two will be indoor / garden only.) I have always had lads as i also was advised that girl and boys mature differently and can grow apart when they get older so it best to have same sex? Whatcha think?
Now this little laddy at Jenny's popped over for a visit today (with Jenny cause he didn't know where i lived
) to see if little Garf would get on with him without Gizzy about. They both hissed and little lad was pretty scared and just hid mainly for about 2 hours . He hissed at me when i picked him up but is absolulety fine with Jenny. Garf was very very interested and i know is a bit desparate for a playpal as Gizzy is not playing with him at all now. I am worried as i am Garf's only playpal that he is becoming dependant on me which ain't healthly so that's why i thinking of a pal for him.
With all me little ones, they have been very curious and not hidden but playful when they 1st arrive so is little lad a timid fella or would it of been just new surroundings. I am worried to adopt little lad if he is timid with two lads that are definately not! Jen says he isn't timid at her house and more cuddly than playful. He is three of a litter from a young mum who were given to CP when the kittens were 5 weeks old and has been at Jenny's since. The mum is wonderful and Jenny is adopting her. So little lad has had a good upbringing with his mum like Garf had.
I don;t wanna make the wrong chioce with personality and have three babes "putting up" with each other esp as not allowed in big outside world. See i not sure that if i choose a confident lad that there won;t be trouble later for rank satus when they get old or if i adopt a quiter lad that he will get picked on and be scared all the time.
Oooo this ain't easy ya know lol what do ya all think?