Max, my 13 yr old half Tonkinese/Siamese just won't eat. He seems to be hungry sometimes but is refusing food put in front of him. Up until a week ago he was eating i/d well and fast and enjoying it. He sometimes got some other foods and ate them fine too and was on a can a day.
He suddenly just stopped eating as much i/d and in the last 2 days is refusing it (he loved it for months); he ate some d/d yesterday and today (about 1/4can) but now won't touch it. In desperation I tried him on some of his 'old' food, RC senior dry and he has eaten a couple of teaspoons today, but wouldn't touch it tonight. All he would eat tonight (having refused 4 different foods) was one teaspoon of some of Swampy's l/d - but he refused to eat any more than that, even when hungry - I assume hungry as miaowing. Every meal time is now a nightmare as I just don't know what to give him. I can't starve him until he's ravenous as even when he's not eaten for 7 -8 hours overnight, he would only eat 1/8th can in the morning, instead of 1/2 can.
I took him to the vet yesterday who said there is nothing wrong with him and I must 'wait and see'. I've waited a week and it's getting worse! He also made a crack about 'cat psychiatrists' and said the problem is he's old (13 isn't that old) and that I brought it on myself by having a pedigree cat. Well, hello, he's 13 and up until a week ago has always eaten well.
Max also appears to be very anxious and unhappy and it's hard to get him to purr. He is cuddling up with Swampy and grooming himself and did purr when I zoom-groomed him, but hid under the bed yesterday and is very tense.
I was meant to go to France for 3 days but couldn't leave him like this. I'm unhappy with the way the vet has treated it, like oh neurotic woman has brought in her cat and there's nothing wrong.
No, he didn't see any bags or know I was going away either - it all started long before that.
His weight is surprisingly fairly stable right now so I assume just a tiny amount of RC dry is helping, IF he'll continue to eat that a bit. But he's eating so little and so many diff foods that I really don't know what to do.
Sorry this is long and repetitive but it's late and I'm so tired. Waited up late to see if he'd eat anything (no). He's hiding again too. There have been no changes at home or anything to upset him.
The vet's saved Swampy's life and is by far the best one in the area btw in case anyone says try another opinion, there's no-one to try here in London.
Please does anyone have any suggestions on how to treat this? Max had an anxiety disorder once before, when he peed all over the house, but that was cured by our moving (dog smells from previous owner!). He's immune to feliway. I gave him some catnip which he liked a few days ago but is now completely ignoring.
Sorry forgot to mention that yesterday he did something weird in that he peed in Swampy's litter tray. They've had separate ones since Swampy came back from hospital in October 2006 and he's not done that before. Our best guess is that his problem is psychological although I suppose we should rule out physical illness (how?!) but how on earth can I treat this when I can't see any obvious recent stress/change that could have triggered this anxiety related eating problem???? He and Swampy are getting on well as normal.
btw I will check in when I can tomorrow. OH is monopolising the computer for an exam