He seems a lot better. About 5oclock I bathed it again, and it got so much better, he is opening it up a lot better
It's still not normal but such a difference from earlier. My Mum was over too and said she thinks it looks like he's maybe got something in it (hair etc.)
I lay on the bed with him earlier, facing him and crying, he kept putting his wee paws on my eyes
He's honestly the sweetest little cat I have ever known
He's been eating fine and he's chasing Missy about like a nutter at the moment so hopefully it'll be ok. If it's not gone by Tuesday I'll assume it's an infection and go for antibi's or drops etc.
Thanks for your help guys, don't know what I'd do without this forum at times