Lexy seems to be enjoying a prolonged teenager time. She's 4 so technically not much younger than me at 32, but her mood swings are legendary in this house.
Hannah I have found when its really warm, sprtiz up a kitchen paper towel with cold water, just so its damp and then when Jasper is near for a cuddle just run it up and down him as if you are giving him a nice long scratch. He may enjoy that. Lexy hates anything near her, but when I do that she suddenly realises how fab it feels and the madam purrs like mad. Well for while then she just goes back to ignoring me.