Ok so here's his story so far.......
Last Sunday we went out for sunday lunch as it was o/h birthday, yum, lol. A couple of hours after we got home a neighbour knocked on the door and said you missed it all! Turns out she'd heard something crying in her conifer tree sat night and again sun morning so she rang fire brigade for some advice.
Next news fire brigade turns up and remove what turns out to be dark stanley, a roughly 10 week old kitten, stuck right up her conifer. So she takes him in and feeds him and sees a collar and a note attached which says "If this is your cat can you put a collar and name tag on as he keeps coming into my garden and crying" with the ladys number attached. Neighbour rings the number and the lady lives some way from us and has been feeding the kitten for a few days, she can't take it in as she has 2 dogs.
So anyway neighbours hubby wants it out of the house asap so it's ended up lodging at mine. He got his name as neighbours hubby just lost his grandad recently and he liked climbing - Stanley, and he's black so Dark Stanley it is.
I finally found out how he made it from the lady who was feeding him to me - someone I know was having a drink around that area and walking home was followed by the kitten who was crying. On picking him up she saw the note and thought it said "if found please give to good home" I assume the beer goggles were being worn at the time, lol. So she thought it would be a good idea to knock on my door at 3.30am and after getting no reply promptly posted DS over my fence who then proceeded to get stuck up my neighbours conifer tree. She really did mean well as she's a nice person and DS finally made it to me eventually so all is good.
Upshot is I've advertised him under found in the local paper - had 3 people call but not theirs, hubby says I have to get him a good home. I probably will (very slowly of course). In the meantime DS has teamed up with Monty, they eat, sleep and play together and hubby has bought toys for him so I hope o/h is softening towards DS, one can only hope. DS does help his self though makes a beeline for hubby and purrs like a motor bike so you never know, I just have to keep quiet.........