So it's been a few months now and all is good in the Oscar and Jezabel household. Oscar can wander in and out of any room he wants and although Jezabel doesn't fight or seem bothered by him they have remained distant. Oscar comes downstairs to eat but eventually is herded back upstairs by Jezabel. She seems to prefer it if he stays upstairs and he seems to prefer it too as it's sunny and warm and I think most importantly familiar. Jezabel frequently sniffs at him as he goes by and has stopped hissing although will still swat at him occasionally as he wanders past but Oscar just keeps walking.
Jezabel has become fascinated with Oscar when he is in the litterbox and will wait for him to get out and jump out at him...she is just playing but of course he cannot see her pounce so he just huffs at her and walks away! LOL
Here they are sunbathing and falling asleep halfway into his bed! I so love Jezabel's ginger belly.