Diane
You're amongst fellow cat addicts here...no lurking needed
I wanted a cat to give my grumpy nuggie company after Tazi went off for the bridge.
1. The classic line for you to acheive your goal is: "aww we'll just have a look round..."
2. Separate. Dont let him follow you like a puppy. Set him free to wander and fuss cats on his own (in the bored usual manner most have in these situations).
3. You can now say sentances like "Aww Dolly would love him/her" while pointing out several contenders. Your Other Half, will have already probably bonded with some lone kittie that would have understood and shared his pains and woes of being dragged around by you. THAT kitty is the key. That kittie will get you your 2nd cat. The Other Half fussed it/like it, they shared a moment. The Other Half see it as having his very own "cat"
This how i got Peanut
we "just looked".....I was talking with the rescue lady, cuddling the cats etc getting their history, general chit chat. All the while Simon is bored, doesnt know what to do or say. Along come Peanut. Next thing i turn round and peanut is purring all over him, dribbles everywhere. We looked around the other enclosures, Simon fussing peanut byebye and just before the end and the lady asked if we were interested in any or would we like to go away and think. I did my BEST "what do we do" look at him and he said "i think we'll reserve Peanut. Cos looks like the lad picked us"
My face was like this
but inside i was like this
hahahahahaha its then THEIR decision, THEY picked becos after all - you only wanted to "have a look", didnt you?
Less than 6months later i got Evie
she was my choice. but i did my best pet lip. made up some things about how Peanut the
Wonder Cat & Sole Understander & Allie of my Other Half, needed this kittie in his life. He cant let Peanut down, he relents, we get kitten, its his blame....
You plant the seed, water it and then make them think they did it all be their selves