Thanks barroness, your little snowball is gorgeous! i'm sure she will be back, you really do have to stay positive. I think the more disruptive they were, the more empty the house feels, Puddles is a real little monkey too, just like snowball. Being such inquisitive creatures i'm sure they have just gotten themselves a bit lost. I know i shouldnt feel bad, to lose her once was unfortunate, but a second time i feel so irresponsible. She was such a pampered princess, we answered to her every whim, if she wanted feeding at 3am we got up to do it, she slept in our room and started being a monkey when she wanted to go outside. Part of me wishes i'd been more strict with her and not given in, but when those big yellow eyes look up at you, its real difficult to be the parent! Especially after her ordeal earlier in the year (Puddles was shot and dumped miles away from home, she had some problems with one of her legs. we kept her in until we moved in April because she didnt like being a house cat).
Thanks for the info Christine, i have contacted all the local shelters, vets and am waiting a call back from the council now. They have promised to help in whatever way they can, i had actually called the council to make that phone call none of us want to make, but no word as of yet. My neighbours are all really nice, i'm sure if she is still in the area there should be some news soon.
Thank you (everything crossed for the safe return of puddles and snowball) x x x x x