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Re: When's the right time for introductions
« Reply #10 on: May 27, 2010, 00:38:40 AM »
Brilliant  ;D

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Re: When's the right time for introductions
« Reply #9 on: May 26, 2010, 20:49:24 PM »
The two of them yesterday  :hug:

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Re: When's the right time for introductions
« Reply #8 on: May 26, 2010, 20:47:40 PM »
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 a video of Ariel on her first day home
another one coming (when it's uploaded) of the two of them ...

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Re: When's the right time for introductions
« Reply #7 on: May 26, 2010, 20:36:43 PM »
YAY! The meeting went well yesterday and again today too. :) There was no hissing, lots of kissing noses a little bit of bum-sniffing  :-[. Couldn't have been better.  :Luv:
Will try to photobucket some photos up here and a video if I can ...
still keeping them in their separate areas for now when we're not there as I'm having to manually let Simba in and out of the house while Ariel's around as I don't want her escaping through the catflap. If I seclude them from time to time, then he has what he's used to - free reign from playroom to garden.
Gave them both some catnip this afternoon - hilarious cat and mouse game ensued ... nothing sinsiter, just some retracted claw batting of each other and chasing round the furniture like nutters  :wow: not sure if either dominated - very funny.  :rofl:
They've been really fascinated with each other - couldn't have wished for more at this stage - thanks you lot!  8)

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Re: When's the right time for introductions
« Reply #6 on: May 25, 2010, 11:31:37 AM »
It sounds like its going well with them, id let them meet today loose, remember not to shout or get high pitched IF anything happens. Use a pillow not your hands in event of them fighting but it really doesnt sound like it would go that way.

I wouldnt put one into a confined space to meet another, if they feel trapped and cant run they may well want to fight their corner instead...


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Re: When's the right time for introductions
« Reply #5 on: May 25, 2010, 08:02:32 AM »
yep - it has a whole side meshed.
thx for move! :thanks:

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Re: When's the right time for introductions
« Reply #4 on: May 25, 2010, 01:34:39 AM »
Just gonna move this thread into right place  ;D

Can your other cat still see her and go up to her in the wicker carrier? If not, no good and think you will just have to try letting them be in the same room............you would have to do that eventually anyway.

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Re: When's the right time for introductions
« Reply #3 on: May 24, 2010, 23:28:39 PM »
I do have a largish carrier, no crate, but I'm loathe to put Ariel into it as it may stress her - she hated coming home in the car. She was abandoned in a wood in a carrier pregnant, along with her brother too who had already been rehomed when we first encountered her, so that may explain that ... the wicker carrier I have (which I didn't use to bring her home) may be better?  :Crazy:

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Re: When's the right time for introductions
« Reply #2 on: May 24, 2010, 23:23:18 PM »
Some cats love each other almost instantly and others hate each other forever......sigh

From the sound of it, it seems these two are going to get on great............do you have a  cage or a large carrier..........I would put the new cat in there and then let the current cat in to the same room, watch very carefully for each reactions and if they seem to be Ok , I would open the carrier or cage, making sure that both have a way to escape and hide.

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When's the right time for introductions
« Reply #1 on: May 24, 2010, 22:44:06 PM »
I've just read the excellent info on this thread re introducing new cat and old cat (what the article calls Snowy to Blacky, in our case, Ariel to Simba) and am concerned that my two seem ready more quickly than wisdom suggests.
I've been scent transferring with blankets for the last two weeks before she arrived (Sunday, yesterday) so they are used to the smell and Simba was particularly interested when I brought Ariel's blanket home for him.
She's been confined to a utility room (a large one at that) with hiding places etc is super confident, always comes out when she sees us, is very trusting etc, etc, very fussy and cuddly and purry.
Simba has the playroom from the house to the garden and there's a kitchen in between where today I've been letting one in at a time, with the curtains drawn from the glass windows to the kitchen to the playroom.
Now, this evening, Simba got behind the curtains while Ariel was in the kitchen with me, so I moved her out, let him straight in; he was mewing to meet her under the door. I resisted the temptation - I was i in on my own and didn't know what I'd do if anything went wrong.
So when he was satisfied, he went back to playroom, I shut that glass door and let her in. This time, I let them look at each other through the glass - no hissing, just curiosity. I held it open a finger space; they had a sniff of each other and then she gently put a paw up to the gap without claws, hasten to add and he sniffed more.
They seem to be going through this introduction lark more quickly than I'd have thought, although the homers at Battersea, contrary to their paperwork general guidelines which say wait a week, said I should be able to introduce them quicker than that as Ariel's so confident.
What do you think my next step is? I'm going to swap blankets again one last time before bed ... do you think they'll be ready tomorrow???   :catplay2: :crossed: :catlove: :ahh:

 


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