HELP URGENT!!!

[Millys Mum]

Have you watched them carefully to work out who is actually causing the trouble? Sometimes first glance points at one culprit but when you actually watch them the "victim" actually starts things with subtle body language!
If you try RR or Zylkene id give it to all 3.

[Gill (sneakiefeline)]

REscue remedy is Bachs Resacue remedy and bought from a chemist.....no other make cos they are not safe but its really the two cats that fight huim that need to be calmed down and zykline is a capsule I think and can be split open and put on food, but their food not his cos the first thing is to stop him being attacked,

If you can do that then next it would be his turn  to try and keeep him calm so he will stay in but he maynot need it if he has a bed and isnt attacked, the key is really with him is for him to feel safe when he is in the house and also be able to get out again when ever he wants

[catlover88]

he sleeps on my window sill some of the night then disappears somewhere but i know another couple feed him 2 and my next door neighbour does but he wont go in their houses at all where as i can get him in mine to eat and for a cutch but that is it... im going to the vets tomorrow so i will see what they say about the drops for the water ... id love for him to stay in and he knows when he has food its just him and me when hes eating ... i always keep the other cats locked away at meal times for him..

[Gill (sneakiefeline)]

There is something called zykline that others on Purrs have used and maybe this could be tried with the two cats that are fighting him............I assume this is outside where they are fighting?

I think you can get it from the vet so if yoiu have to take him thats an ideal time to get some.

Where does he sleep, has he got somwhere nice and warm and dry to stay?

Maybe if the two didnt fight him then he would come in as long as he could get out again?

[princessmaizie]

Hi

I'm sure I read somewhere you can put a few drops of rescue remedy (available from the chemists) in their water or rubbed behind their ears to calm cats!  Maybe this will help a little!!

Zoe

[catlover88]

he was neutered at least 6 months ago - they just always having a go at him just fed him now and hes limping great ive already got to take 1 of the cats to vets tomorrow for fighting with him they got to take his toe off cause he ripped his claw out and its not healing properly things i do for these cat i love them but i wish they would get on i even tried feliway.

[Millys Mum]

How long ago did you neuter him? I sympathise, i have the same with dexter, i spent 6 months winning his trust, neutered him yet he remained alpha male and upset my lot, he finally started to call a truce and 2 of my girly boys seized the moment and now pick on him  i wish they all got on and id just keep him.

It can take some time for them to accept a tom into the pack especially if they started off on bad terms due to one being a smelly old entire thing!

[catlover88]

he refuses to stay in other wise id let him sleep in but he wont he has food twice a day ive had him neutered and all of my other cats are neutered.. hes a lovely little cat he doesnt have a reason to cry other than hi im here can you see me? rescue centres r soo full they cant take any more .. id love to keep him but im cryin all the time seeing them fight i break it up as often as i can but if im out then who will do it then? just wish there was a way to make them like each other

[Millys Mum]

Are all cats involved neutered? Is he crying to come in?
If little one is living out then you could phone round and get him on a few rescues waiting lists, everywhere is bursting at the seams but at least he would be heading in the right direction.

[catlover88]

Hi just need some advice if poss...
ive got 5 cats and 1 little cat that sleeps outside thing is 2 of my cats hate him and keep fighting with him cause crys all the time for no reason just cause he likes you to know hes there .. im worried hes gonna get badly hurt loads of people feed him and comes to visit everyday is there any way i can stop them fighting with him?( they fight him cause he cries)