Well the offer of a home here is still open and we are not too far from him so he could even have visitation rights if he wanted. However I am not going to push the issue with him, it is his call. Tried to reassure him that there would be no lack of fuss and laps in this house, but he did not seem too sure which is fine by me, As we all say, if in doubt don't rehome.
Taking into account her age, she may well be better off in a home that is not as busy as ours, although my old man (cat that is, not the OH!) takes himself off into my study and snores away on the chair to his hearts content and the others have learnt to give him a wide berth.
Pity she has not yet found her new home yet, I wish him and her well in their search.