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Re: Nina has been kept in at the vets, she is v. unwell - My girl has gone
« Reply #144 on: August 30, 2009, 16:59:20 PM »
So sorry Ems  :hug: I'm pleased she went peacefully, RIP Nina  :RIP:

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Re: Nina has been kept in at the vets, she is v. unwell - My girl has gone
« Reply #143 on: August 30, 2009, 02:25:55 AM »
So sorry to hear about Nina - she went with love and dignity . :RIP:
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Re: Nina has been kept in at the vets, she is v. unwell - My girl has gone
« Reply #142 on: August 29, 2009, 22:50:01 PM »
You did the Most Couragous thing for Nina and let Her go with Dignity  :shy:

My thought's are with you both
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« Last Edit: August 29, 2009, 22:51:34 PM by Stuart ( Olivia's Butler ) »
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Re: Nina has been kept in at the vets, she is v. unwell - My girl has gone
« Reply #141 on: August 29, 2009, 22:37:39 PM »
Thank you so much everyone  :hug:

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Re: Nina has been kept in at the vets, she is v. unwell - My girl has gone
« Reply #140 on: August 29, 2009, 22:26:11 PM »
I'm so very sorry Ems - you gave her the greatest gift , a peaceful , diginified last sleep. :hug: :hug:
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Re: Nina has been kept in at the vets, she is v. unwell - My girl has gone
« Reply #139 on: August 29, 2009, 20:49:41 PM »
Hope you managed to catch up on some sleep earlier honey  :hug:

RIP sweet Nina, play hard on the Bridge sweetheart, and yes, do go and find Mr Max, he'll show you around xxxxx

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Re: Nina has been kept in at the vets, she is v. unwell - My girl has gone
« Reply #138 on: August 29, 2009, 19:35:57 PM »
RIP Nina  :(


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Re: Nina has been kept in at the vets, she is v. unwell - My girl has gone
« Reply #137 on: August 29, 2009, 19:22:42 PM »
so sad. RIP little Nina.

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Re: Nina has been kept in at the vets, she is v. unwell - My girl has gone
« Reply #136 on: August 29, 2009, 18:38:33 PM »
So sorry to hear about Nina

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Re: Nina has been kept in at the vets, she is v. unwell - My girl has gone
« Reply #135 on: August 29, 2009, 18:09:41 PM »
Lots of hugs to you and Jon, Ems. Thinking of you :hug:

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Re: Nina has been kept in at the vets, she is v. unwell - My girl has gone
« Reply #134 on: August 29, 2009, 16:23:33 PM »
Night Night Nina, safe and sound at the Bridge by now until your Mum and Dad are ready to collect you xx

The Greatest Gift

I always knew this time would come,
From the very instant our eyes first met.
How I loved you then! How I love you now!
I made a promise then, and I will keep that promise now...
You will not suffer from a pain that will not heal;
You will not know the loss of a life remembered, now gone.

It is for me alone to make this decision,
The price for the bright joy and pure laughter
You brought me during the time we shared.
I am the only one who can decide when it is time.
When my hope dies, and my fear rides high,
Just when I need you most, I must let you go.

It is for you alone to tell me when you are ready
For without your guidance, I will not know
When to lay my grief, my guilt, my anger
My sorrow and my selfish heart aside
And give you this last gift, this greatest gift.
Your eyes will speak to mine, and I will know.

The pain of this moment is excruciating.
Tears stream down my face in a river of sorrow.
And my heart drowns in a pool of grief.
For you have spoken and I have listened,
And unlike other decisions I have made
This one brings no relief...no comfort...no peace.

For if there´s one thing you´ve taught me,
If there´s only one thing I´ve learned...
Unconditional love has a condition after all,
I must be willing to let you go, when you speak to me
I must be willing to help you go, if you cannot go alone.
And I must accept my pain so you can be free of yours.

Go easily now, go quickly now,
Do not linger here, it is time for you to leave.
Go find your strength, go find your youth.
Go find the ones who've gone before you.
You are free to leave me now, free to let your spirit soar
Rest easy now, your pain will soon be gone.

I pray I will find comfort in my memories...
In the dark and lonely days ahead.
I cannot say I will not miss you, I cannot say I will not cry.
For only my tears can heal my broken heart.
But, I promise you this; as long as I live,
You will live, alive in my mind, forever in my heart.

So I give you this last gift, all I have left to give,
And this will be my greatest gift...sending you away.
It is the measure of my unconditional love...
For only the greatest love can say,
"Good-bye, go find the bridge, we'll meet again,
Loving you has been the greatest gift of all."

Forever and Always... Until Rainbow bridge....


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Re: Nina has been kept in at the vets, she is v. unwell - My girl has gone
« Reply #133 on: August 29, 2009, 16:23:27 PM »
 :hug:to both you and Jon

She left with a smile to remind you she will never be faraway :hug:
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Re: Nina has been kept in at the vets, she is v. unwell - My girl has gone
« Reply #132 on: August 29, 2009, 15:23:39 PM »
Sorry Ems  :care:

She wasn't scared as her mum was with her  :hug:
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Re: Nina has been kept in at the vets, she is v. unwell - My girl has gone
« Reply #131 on: August 29, 2009, 15:07:17 PM »
So sorry to hear this Ems, but glad that beautiful Nina passed to the Bridge peacefully :hug:

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Re: Nina has been kept in at the vets, she is v. unwell - My girl has gone
« Reply #130 on: August 29, 2009, 14:35:33 PM »
RIP Nina xxxx
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Re: Nina has been kept in at the vets, she is v. unwell - My girl has gone
« Reply #129 on: August 29, 2009, 14:24:23 PM »
Im sure that last little smile was a comfort to you at this very sad time :(  you gave her dignity to pass over and thats the best farewell gift to a much loved furbabe and im sure shes now running around on the bridge with all our other furbabes who have gone this year having the time of her life ;D my thoughts are with you both :hug: :hug:                                                                    RIP Nina safe at the bridge till you meet again :Luv:
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Re: Nina has been kept in at the vets, she is v. unwell - My girl has gone
« Reply #128 on: August 29, 2009, 13:52:46 PM »
Ems I am bawling now having read your last post.  What a beautiful way to go and especially giving you that little "smile",you did the right thing honey,however hard it is now,you gave  Nina the greatest gift ever.

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Re: Nina has been kept in at the vets, she is v. unwell - My girl has gone
« Reply #127 on: August 29, 2009, 13:24:04 PM »
Oh Ems Im so sorry hun  :(  :hug:

RIP Nina xxx
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Re: Nina has been kept in at the vets, she is v. unwell - My girl has gone
« Reply #126 on: August 29, 2009, 13:14:24 PM »
I am so pleased that she passed peacefully and with a smile on her face, that must have been very comforting  :hug: :hug:

RIP Nina and look out for all our friends, its Kockas birthday today so bet there will be a party

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Re: Nina has been kept in at the vets, she is v. unwell - My girl has gone
« Reply #125 on: August 29, 2009, 12:20:19 PM »
Thinking of you and John and sending you lots of love and  :hug:

RIP sweet Nina - play hard at the Bridge xxx
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Re: Nina has been kept in at the vets, she is v. unwell - My girl has gone
« Reply #124 on: August 29, 2009, 12:00:00 PM »
Ems so very sorry, I know how much you and Jon loved and treasured Nina,take comfort that she had a wonderful life with you, she is at peace now  :hug:

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Re: Nina has been kept in at the vets, she is v. unwell - My girl has gone
« Reply #123 on: August 29, 2009, 11:38:01 AM »
RIP Nina, no more pain now sweetheart xx

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Re: Nina has been kept in at the vets, she is v. unwell - My girl has gone
« Reply #122 on: August 29, 2009, 11:22:43 AM »
RIP Sweet Nina, please send a rainbow to mummy and daddy when you arrive on the Bridge! x

Im glad that her passing was a peaceful one...  :hug: :hug: :hug: to you both! x

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Thanks everyone  :hug:

She has gone, it was beautiful. She had a sedative first and went to sleep in my arms then had the last injection and looked so, so peaceful.

We were cuddling her telling her how much we loved her and to look for all the lovely Purrs cats at the bridge who would look after her. (Especially a handsome black boy called Max)

I haven't slept a wink going over everything in my mind, worrying that we weren't doing the right thing. Then as I held her and told her I loved her she looked at me, gave a little sigh and had a contented smile on her face and I knew we had made the right decision for her.  

Everybody at the vets was fantasctic, we are bringing her ashes home next week in a lovely casket with an inscription on.

« Last Edit: August 29, 2009, 11:24:03 AM by ems (nina+kiki's mum) »

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I'm so very sorry about little Nina and am thinking of you and Jon  :hug:

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Just to say I am thinking of You, Nina and John xxxx

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I'm so sorry, Ems. Enjoy the time you have left with Nina. :care: to you and Jon.




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Sorry to hear the sad news Ems...  :(

Will be thinking of you all tonight!   :hug: :hug:

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So sorry  :'(

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You'll be in my thoughts tomorrow. Even though we know it's the kindest thing to do it doesn't make it any easier.

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Oh Ems i am so sorry, i know the feeling . :( Thinking of you, Nina and Jon. :hug: :hug:

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Oh Ems im so sorry your having to say goodbye to Nina :(  its one of the hardest things we have to do when we let them go with dignity and my thoughts will be with you and OH tomorrow, :hug: :hug:
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I'm so sorry Ems, thinking of you  :hug:

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Thanks everyone  :hug: I can't tell you how much we appreciate all your kind wishes  :hug:

She is settled upstairs and just wants a bit of peace and quiet at the minute to be honest. Am setting us a den up in the bedroom shortly so we can have a cuddle and go to bed.

Jon is my strength, he went through everything with the vet while I had Nina in my arms feeling like my legs were about to go from under me. He has made all the arrangements for the morning and what will happen afterwards too.

I just can't believe my poor girl is leaving me, I can't help but doubt that we have made the right decision but I was sitting with her earlier and she looked at me with such tired eyes, I know in my heart that she is fading fast and the last thing we want is for her to be having fits (which Austin the vet has said is the next step) and suffering.

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Ems my thoughts and prayers are with you and Jon  :hug:

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Em I'm so sorry  :hug:

You and nina will be in my thoughts are prayers this evening xxxxx
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