WADARS, the local rescue are desperate for people to life foster older cats. All medical costs paid, so I think I might suggest that.
It goes without saying that I would offer to feed when they are away, but next door, who are really good neighbours and feed mine and the fish when we are away would be only too happy and are a lot closer. It just annoys me, she brushes aside anything I say and treats me like a child cos she is 62 and I am 45. Her kids are older than me and she just doesn't listen.