Well thanks everyone for being so kind, Lucky appears to be slightly happier today venturing outside a bit more and has been playing too, even though we got her this place feels empty without sox hed come and wake me in the morning my gently tapping my face with his paw, i've never known such a gentle and kind little cat before, the cat I grew up with use to scratch hiss at anyone who went near her, she lived till she was 18 and although we missed tiptoes we knew she had to go, just seems unfair that sox was so ickle still.. Keep thinking i see sox out the corner of my eye, anyway once again thanks all x